I just found out that I am pregnant only 3 weeks though. This is my second pregnancy the first one ended after 5.5 weeks. Now I feel like I can't be too excited because so many things can go wrong. I made an appointment for the 26th of June but that is still 2 weeks that I have to wait. I also decided not to tell anyone but my husband which makes it less exciting cause you can't tell everyone. I fell indifferent maybe because I don't want to get my hopes up. Is anyone in a similar situation?
2007-06-12 02:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Rebecca1305 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I had a Blighted ovum. Thanks everyone for the great support. I hate when people answer nasty but you are all great. And good luck to those who are currently TTC lots of baby dust
2007-06-12 02:58:47 · update #1
Not exactly similar, but I've had a miscarriage. I was 4 months along when I lost my baby, which is supposed to be the "safe" point. So I know that when I get pregnant again (currently trying) I won't feel relaxed until I've had the genetic ultrasound done at 12 weeks (this is where the problems of my first baby were discovered). At that time is probably where I'll make a bigger announcement (like at work and such and with more casual acquaintances).
I can totally understand how you feel. I really think, though, that when you have your first ultrasound done at 6 weeks where they confirm a heartbeat, you'll be good to go. Most women, even without a history of pregnancy issues, wait until that point to make the big announcement.
Congratulations and thank you for sharing your wonderful news with us on Yahoo! :))
2007-06-12 02:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by ღ†Rocker Wife†ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why was it you missed befor? it all depends on that really, because if you had alot of stress or couldnt hold the baby you might want to talk with the doctor and get on some bed rest, or right now just sit around with your feet up untill the doctor app. Its a hard thing to keep something that big and exciting away from people, because of your past miss, i would wait it out untill you have your doctor app. to make sure everything is going smothly than after that yell it out to the world, lol. but i hope you get a good reading just relax and take care.
2007-06-12 02:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Star*famous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a baby too last year and still TTC so I know how you feel...
It's good that you're not telling anyone now but hon try to look at the positive side that you are pregnant now and this doesn't mean your going to loose this one too..!! enjoy it with your husband and don't kill the joy and the excitement inside you, always think positive and positive things will happen to you...All what you can do now is take it easy don't do too much effort ,listen to your body, eat well a, sleep well and pray to god to pass this time safely...Congratulations to you and your spouse, Wish me luck
2007-06-12 02:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by la vie en rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is 100% natural hun. Not one soul could blame you for waiting to see a heartbeat and getting past that first milestone. Also, your risk of having another miscarriage has greatly reduced. It will become more exciting as the pregnancy goes along and you see and heart the heartbeat in your later ultrasounds. Chin up, hopefully the 26th will bring you great joy!
2007-06-12 02:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax I know this is very stressful & a worrying situation. The more you stress the more the baby does. There is always hope just because you have had one miscarriage doesn't mean you will again. My best friend miscarriaged and two weeks later got pregnant again & now has a healthy 11 month old baby boy.
2007-06-12 02:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have the appointment. Ask for a ultrasound. If you can see the heartbeat, the risk of M?C drop dramatically. I had a M/C 5 months ago and this time around My OB offer U/C right away. I feel a lot better when I saw the little heart beating.
2007-06-12 02:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I did the same thing as you. We were actually going to wait until the 3rd month but he couldn't wait. After the first appointment he blurted it to everyone he met.
One other thing, enjoy it and relax because if you are stressed and worrying non stop that is not good for the baby or you!
Good Luck to you and your hubbie!
2007-06-12 02:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how exciting it is to be pregnant and to tell everyone. I was like that before. My BF didn't want any of the friends to know yet until later on in the pregnancy! But hey I couldn't help it
2007-06-12 02:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself have been pregant 7 times,3 ended in miscarriage,i know it can be hard,but take it a week a time,i didn't but anything for this baby until 20 weeks.they say a pregancy akes a pregancy,this baby probarly will be fine.
2007-06-12 02:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by justasinnersavedbygrace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not in the same situation but you should wait until after you are 3 mos. ask him to respect your decision. good luck.
2007-06-12 02:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by M n M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋