OK!!!! Now that I have your attention!! I know that giving birth is extremely painfull and some times risky, and my sister is having a baby in Nov. She just got married so im really stoked about it! Anywho, are there any usefull tips I can give her to ensure a healthy baby and mother? =)
ps: Child Labor Is Extreme, I only used that intro as a hook hahaha
2007-06-12 02:03:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just tell her to make sure she takes her prenatal vitamins EVERYDAY! And to make sure she get's a LOT of calcium. Tell her not to do things that make her have to lift her arms over her head a lot, as this can cause the umbilical cord to wrap around the baby's neck and strangle the baby. Also tell her to try to keep away from stressfull situations and/or people as high levels of stress can cause miscarraiges. Make sure she doesn't miss any of the doctor appointments and just try to stay healthy. A lot of times, when women get pregnant, they automaticaly go into this mindset that they should just sit/lay around and be catered to, but it's actually more healthy for the mom to be active as much as she can. Tell her that even though she might have weird cravings and want to eat all the time, to not over-indulge herself. Anything over a 28-32 lb weight gain is unhealthy and has the potential to be dangerous for the baby. And if she happens to lose weight at the beginning of the pregnancy, that's fine. Not all women experience this, but it's otherwise normal and won't hurt the baby. This is usually caused by morning sickness and the constant feeling of nausia, so if this happens, tell her to try to eat things that she can keep down, like crackers, bread, and even sprite or 7-up. Other than that, tell her to just try to be as happy and healthy as possible and everything should be just fine!! Congrats to her and to you! I can't wait till my brother and sister-in-law have a baby! I want to be an Aunt so bad! lol
2007-06-12 02:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by C is me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What? Because it hurts. It's the only way we can get a child. We'd like some acknowledgement - for most people having a baby is a big deal. It's the most important thing they will ever do. So to acknowledge the pain that a woman goes through is not asking much. And men here complain non stop about going to war. Even though they've never been near a front line.
2016-05-18 00:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Supplements (particularly Folic acid and Iron) are the most important. If she's not getting it in her regular diet, she'll need to get it somewhere.
Beyond all that... no smoking or recreational drug use while pregnant, check all drugs/medications with the attending doctor to make sure that they're not harmful to the baby, minimal alcohol (some people will tell you no alcohol at all but the odd glass of wine with supper won't hurt) *Everything in moderation.
Tell her to forget the BS that people will tell her about stopping exercise while pregnant. She does need to keep fit no matter how pregnant she gets. The more fit she is, the easier the labour will be. Tell her to relax...stress is a pain and since she and the baby share a blood stream, if she's stressed, the baby will be as well.
2007-06-12 02:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Marc G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Giving birth is not as harsh as the first 3 weeks that follow. I had an emotional breakdown after 2 weeks from lack of sleep and exhaustion from just having a baby. Really, if you have time you can be a big help by coming over in the morning time to take care of the baby while she sleeps in. Maybe straighten up her house for her too. We try to have a perfectly clean house with baby home, but we hurt ourselves in the process. I cried and cried because of hot flashes and my body adjusting to not being pregnant anymore. Be there for her when she needs you.
2007-06-12 02:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I walked a lot when I was pregnant. It kept my pressure at a normal level, and it made for an easier labor. I also kept away from things with a lot of sodium, as it can cause a lot of problems. And contrary to popular belief, a pregnant woman really is not eating for two. Six small meals a day and and healthy snacks in between ought to do the trick. Prenatal vitamins made me puke, but some kind of vitamin is necessary. Also, common sense, no smoking, drinking, or heavy lifting.
2007-06-12 02:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Masha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good hook, I was about to rip you a new one. I have had 7 kids and each experience was different. Tell her to relax as much as possible and she's NOT eating for two. The weight will be hard to lose if she over does the weight gain. Maintain a healthy balance of diet and exercise. Take the prenatal vitamins and get some rest...she'll need it after the new arrival. Good luck and all my best to her and you for being concerned.
2007-06-12 02:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she is eating proper foods and taking care of herself both physically and mentally for both of their sakes. There are a lot of books on childbirth and a lot of childbirth alternatives-it doesn't have to be scary but is supposed to be the most beautiful thing in the world. I have had 7 children all by natural childbirth, including a set of twins. Each and every birth was beautiful! When she sees that gorgeous baby she will forget about any pain she may have had. I did!
2007-06-12 02:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by perfectmom88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to worry so much about the childbirth, doctors have pretty much taken that out of peoples control (for fear of being sued and higher fees for caeserians). Tell her to learn all about what happens after the child is born. NO ONE EVER DOES THIS !!! They all go to birthing class and study up on what will happen in less than a day, and do no study on breastfeeding and infant care and early childcare. STUPIDS !!! Also tell her a womens body produces chemicals after the birth to make her forget the pain. That and childbirth is a very messy process ! Try to go to the toilet for ones and two's before you start pushing.
2007-06-12 02:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by =42 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good, cuz i was gonna say guys have never gone through childbirth! i think all the chicks were gonna beat you senseless, that would have been fun. oh well. i suggest getting a doula or midwife. my family did and they were very helpful and stuff. they help the wife to cope with the pain and the father to have a bigger part in the birth. they will visit you at home and help you make a birth plan. they'll even visit you after the baby is born sometimes
2007-06-12 02:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nevermind about the birth or pregnancy. That's what husbands and doctors are for. Clean the house before and after birth, just generally tidy up to save her hassle. Tend to grizzling child if she is taking a nap. Just be there for them both. Love the child nconditionaly and be the best uncle you can be. Good luck to all =)
2007-06-12 02:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋