My bf isn't acting normal. He used to try to talk to me about twice a day but now he doesn't even try. I asked him if he was mad at me yesterday and he said "No, I'm not mad babes", but when I was talking to him today he left without saying "Goodbye" or that he loves me or anything. I feel sad and confused.
Has this ever happened to you?
2007-06-11 23:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
wait until you get married.
2007-06-11 23:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by latymer_crown 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend like that years ago and I dumped him. He just grew so inconsiderate to where I felt like I didn't know him anymore, couldn't stand him after a while so I got rid of the problem. I later found out that he was using some drugs with his friends behind my back and all of that, so I'm glad he showed me his real self, in which I dumped him because of. (Then he went around and told everyone that he had no idea why I broke up with him! duh.) He knew, he knew I felt like he was ignoring me because I had told him, made no diffrence, until I dumped him of course. Oh well. He later married this little tramp, she was originally his best friends piece of azz, aha, years later guess what? Uhuh, she started ingoring HIM only she was screwing around on him, aha, with his old ex best friend that he got her from!!! They're divorced now and he's paying her real sweet! Funny huh? I know I enjoy it!
2007-06-12 06:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me.
You have to try to make him talk to you, just be honest and tell him that you are feeling that he is not interested in the relationship anymore, and that him not talking to you is making you sad and confused but don't nag him about it.Just say your piece and tell him that when he is ready to tell you what it going on you will listen
2007-06-12 06:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, but maybe he has something on his mind, and just doesnt want to bother you with it. WE know that we want to hear about everything, both good & bad, but guys are different, hes probably hoping to sort it without bogging you down with it, not realizing his behaviour change is apparent or worrying you, i hope things are back to normal soon
2007-06-12 06:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just practicing for marriage.
2007-06-12 06:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by A-ROD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "try" which says to me that he wanted to talk but you didn't. There's your sign!
2007-06-12 06:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sweety some guys get into moods like anybody else.. give him time to sort it out
2007-06-12 06:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like has has something on his mind. when this happens with my husband i just leave him alone. itll be ok. they just have to think it out. the last thing they need is someone hounding them
2007-06-12 06:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes....just talk to him and get to the bottom of it..tell him that you feel hurt or lonely...concentrate on how you feel and tell him....
2007-06-12 06:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lefty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he has something in mind.... b open minded & ask him if there's something wrong
2007-06-12 06:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....it's either a phase or time to move along....
2007-06-12 06:21:07 · answer #11 · answered by dianehaslegs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋