In our relationships like father ,mother, and spouse
do we really tell the truth of everything of ourself.
Sometimes I think we say "I love You" don't come heart but just to make happy others.
2007-06-11 22:54:26 · 11 answers · asked by The More I learn The More I'm Uneducated 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Dear Ankit I know you are right. This a question for people to say their views. And as far as observing people I'm doing the same from last 10 years I watch them at bus stops, railway stations, airports etc.,
And telling truth is upto you good but i would like to know even the opposite person is as good as you to listen the truth.
2007-06-11 23:26:07 · update #1
Believe me, I've never said "I Love You" to my mom. It doesn't mean that I don't love her, I do love her sooo much. I believe that by taking care of her, giving her some attentions, doing some activities together (like cooking, or shopping, etc) mean a lot more than saying I love you.
Tell yourself and anyone else what you have in your heart by doing, not by saying something.
2007-06-12 00:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats not possible. Whatever may be the case there are realms in each of us which is only meant for self. No matter how close we get to anyone still we exhibit the uniquness in us.
Though we may say two bodies one soul, but practically to reach that state is really a tough one. We cant say we are telling lie are truth but we always do our best to get the better part of us to be shining rather to get the smaller which is always whining.
Love is wonderful experience, but to realise and enjoy the true essence of itself is a great effort, but is wonderful and worthy. Love teachs us the joy of giving rather than taking.
Till then we only want to take, but in love we get to know a new dimension of Giving.
But untill then with all humanly imperfection we jus simply try the best.
2007-06-12 12:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by M.L.M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the present time, very few people speak the truth. In fact, speaking the truth at all times or situations or to all kinds of people is not desirable. At present, very few are interested to hear the truth, even if it is said by someone. Most people today wish only to be praised, even if this praise is fake or insicere. Then how can they listen to the truth? And how can you speak the truth to such people?
2007-06-12 06:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Devarat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation for most of the people.Some times your truth telling habit will put you in trouble.So to avoid trouble in some places you have to either lie or don't say the truth.
2007-06-12 11:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by kandaswamyraveendhranperumal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we can make others happy , no worry in telling a lie or for a sake , if u make others happy u would naturally feel happy its a cycle.
2007-06-12 06:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AS FAR AS WE ARE CONCERNED SAYING THAT IS DIFFICULT
WHAT WE CAN SAY CONFIDENTLY IS ABOUT OURSELVES
I DONT KNOW ABOUT U BUT I ALWAYS SAY WHAT IS THE TRUTH
ONE THING WE SHOULD KEEP IN MIND
PHILOSOPHICAL MATURITY IS PART OF A PERSONS PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AND THE STANDS HE TAKES
IT IS ABOUT HIS LEARNING ABOUT HIMSELF SO DONT ASK UR PHILOSOPHICAL QUESTIONS ON OPEN FORUMS FOR THE PERSONS READING THIS MAY NOT BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THIS AND DRAW A PROPER CONCLUSION.
SO TRY OBSERVING YOURSELF AND DRAW YOUR OWN CONCLUSIONS FOR THIS IS A PART OF YOUR OWN PSYCHOLOGICAL AND ETHICAL DEVELOPMENT.
TAKE CARE.
2007-06-12 06:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by ANKIT S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i do but sometimes....situtations do come up where we get the solution as lie.....but no in relationships u cant n y we wud say anything which we dont feel ...well in that case no i dont lie!
2007-06-12 06:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
even god had to lie sometimes . if we tell a lie which does no harm to others & if it makes others happy then why not ?
2007-06-12 11:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be deplomatic, U cannot always say the truth if u want to survive!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-12 06:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime we have to lie.A lie that doesn't hurt anyone is alright.
2007-06-12 06:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by manjit grover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋