Theres this guy and he says he loves me we've been having sex together for the last 3 months he was my 1st anyway he wants me to give him oral but Ive never performed oral and its not something im comfortable with either.. How can I tell him this?
Thanks
2007-06-11 22:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Tell him that you are not comfortable doing it...
He should be able to understand!
2007-06-11 22:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by LIEUTENANT K STAR!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't comfortable with doing it. If he truly loves you and he's not with you for sex he'll understand and respect your decision. On the other hand if he tries to convince you to do it or make you do it break up with him ASAP because he's only with you for the sex. Tell him before bed or prior to having sex. Tell him that maybe you'll gradually come around to it just not now. Good luck!
2007-06-12 05:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by powerpuffcutie24™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do. You'll only regret it somewhere down the line.
2007-06-12 05:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him the same way you told us, if he loves you, he will respect this. experience comes with time, relax, it should be fun, you shouldnt be doing anything you are not 100% sure about. just tell him
2007-06-12 05:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can just give it a try, i didn't want to , but i did it for my hubby and now we both love it
2007-06-12 05:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by jennyforrich 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd do it to you...if he can't give YOU the satisfaction, don't give HIM the satisfaction...
2007-06-12 05:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it...
2007-06-12 05:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋