This girl I've been hanging out with a lot keeps handcuffs in her purse, should I be scared?

Question

I've been hanging around this one girl a lot. We do a lot of group things together. She's very popular, and gets a text or call on her cell phone like every 5 minutes. So she is constantly opening and closing her purse. When she opened her purse one time, something shiny caught my eye. I did not get a good peak at it, so I got closer and waited for her to put her phone back. I looked in, and it was a pair of handcuffs. All I could tell is that they we're not the furry ones, they were all metal. But maybe they were a toy. One of her friends comes running in and says to come here real quick. She does and forgets her purse. I looked in (did not touch anything) and they were real handcuffs, not toys at all. I walked in and gave her the purse she left. I've noticed these everytime I see her open her purse now. Last week, just me and her saw a movie. Before the movie, she went in her purse to turn off her phone, and they were there still. Why would she have them?

Is there any logical reason to having them? Should I be scared? I'm scared to ask her, cause she might think I've been going through her purse and maybe handcuff me.

Answer 1

a] Handcuffs are fun. Maybe she's just being prepared. You never know when kinky strikes.

b] Maybe she wants to be a cop, and carries them around to make her feel like one.

c] If anyone tries to rape her she can cuff them and run for help.

d] just ask her!

Answer 2

If she is anything like my friend, she probably JUST used them right before she came for coffee !!

and she is just trying to keep the spark in her relationship,, that is GREAT, that means she is a passionate person, and doesn't give up easy.
but my friend always tells me she has handcuffs in her purse, how, when and why she used them.
If I were you I would lighten up just a touch, (even though you don't know her that well)
joke around about how if you could handcuff your guy (or date)
and how much crazy fun that would be, and that you would leave him there, like in the movies,, lol
that is a really good start to get her to open up about them?
at the very least, she will say,, hey I have a pair right here, want to borrow them?

Answer 3

No concept, perhaps she in basic terms thinks they are cool. it must be an interior shaggy dog tale, she must be a cop, she could like kinky intercourse, who is familiar with. My advice, wait till next time she opens her handbag, make a coach of you noticing the handcuffs, as though for the 1st time, then ask her "howdy, whats with the handcuffs?" it somewhat is unusual for the elementary individual to be donning around handcuffs and it may be completely professional to ask approximately it.

Answer 4

I'm confused - in this question you're asking if you should be scared by a girl who carries handcuffs, but in another questions you're asking where to buy handcuffs. The two questions appear to be complete opposites - are you scared by them or not?

Answer 5

I've got a brand new pair of handcuffs
You've got a brand new key
I think that we should get together and
Try them on to see
I been lookin' around awhile
You got something for me
Oh, I got a brand new pair of handcuffs
You got a brand new key

Answer 6

Who knows she could be an undercover cop or she could be a stripper pretending be a cop / she could be a security guard or she could have bought them illegally

Answer 7

Maybe she's an undercover cop

Answer 8

no u shouldnt b scared she may have them 4 protection

Answer 9

she probobly *likes* you. If you know what I mean. There probobly not real, if this isnt true then shes a physco!

Answer 10

SHE COULD HAVE THEM THERE TO GIVE TO A FRIEND WHEN SHE SEES THEM OR SHE COULD BE AN UNDERCOVER COP.