my husband is white and if we had a kid that would never happen. sorry but i was raised with boundrys.
my friend let's her kids see her naked which i think is wrong but hey, to each his own i guess.
Just dont know what people are thinking?
2007-06-11 17:49:22 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
kissing someone on the lips is for hubbys or boyfriend, not kids!
2007-06-11 18:02:01 · update #1
i ALWAYSSSSss kiss my kids on the cheek and they do the same!!! i will NOT allow ANYONE to kiss them and never let them sit on anyones laps (except for mine) i dont want them to think its okay for ANYONE to kiss them especially on the mouth!!! hahaha and im definately white!
2007-06-11 18:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by shannonlee05@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm Caucasian myself... but Italian. I've noticed this myself living in the U.S. and find it disgusting. Don't generalize that all white people do this. I DO disagree that it "should be between a man and a woman"... the gender doesn't matter! Kissing on the cheeks and the head is fine, but the lips is culturally a sexual place. I haven't noticed if it's particularly one child compared to another based on the gender however.
2016-04-01 03:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think kissing your kids on the mouth is wrong, but where did you get the idea that just white people do it?
ive seen my mum and dad naked. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. i didnt feel the need to explore my mates bodies when i was little because i had already seen it all and knew what it was all about.
if you dont allow your kids to see your body then think of all the questions they are gonna ask when they are older??? mummy whats that hanging between my legs? etc etc
lol, do what you like, but i have every intention of allowing my children to see my naked body. obviously not on a regular basis tho!!!
kissing kids on the mouth is disgusting. but I AM WHITE so how comes i don't do it, eh?
2007-06-11 17:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by kirstyyy :) 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm white and my parents never kissed me in the mouth.....
Anyway, I have a friend who kisses her dad on the mouth...but it's definitely not sexual.
I really don't think that kissing someone on the mouth hasto besexual..unless you french kiss them or something.
Anyway, I don't really care what others do.
As for the seeing their parents naked...I see no problem with it if the kid is young or of the same gender with the parent...
Well, I dunno...each parent raises their kid in their own way.
I don't see anything wrong with the things you mentioned...
2007-06-11 17:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by siriusblack84 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason my Mom kissed me on the mouth, and the same reason other parents kissed thier kids on the mouth, I'am just sorry that your mouth was kissed by your Uncle, Aunt, Sister,Brother,Father,Next door neighbor,Dog,Cat, and that Ugly Fat thing called (sic) "boundrys". Your issuses are best left with yourself and not posted in public to try and let them dry. Good Luck and I hope that any kid you two have gets some type of love.
2007-06-11 18:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am white and I kiss my kids on the cheek! Maybe the forehead or sometimes their necks because they are ticklish there. My ex mother in law is a lip kisser, and it is uncomfortable for me.
I don't freak out if they walk in and see me naked, but I don' t advertise it, either. I keep my door closed.
2007-06-11 17:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ohhh well... first of all, it's not just a white thing, I've seen people of all races kiss their kids on the mouths. My kids kiss me on the mouth. And second of all, my kids see me naked all the time.... they are tiny, and also they are girls. It's just like seeing your best friend in a locker room, it's not like it's sexual, when they want mommy, they come in and get me, they don't care if I'm naked in the shower or the tub or getting dressed or whatever. I don't see anything wrong with it!
2007-06-11 17:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
My parents never kissed me on the mouth. I've seen my mom naked but then again she's seen me naked too. The human body is nothing to be ashamed of, and it's not like you're doing anything with your child if they happen to see you naked. Little kids are like leeches occasionally and just won't leave you alone.
2007-06-11 17:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
You are generalizing. Not ALL white people kiss their kids on the mouth.
2007-06-11 17:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it has to do with race. I wouldn't kiss my kids on the mouth, but I don't see anything wrong with someone else doing it.
2007-06-11 17:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋