Ok, there's this person that tags along with me and my friends, but I don't mind. We're going on a trip, and she wants to be in our group. My friends really don't want her. They don't want her following us around, but no one else wants her to either. What should we do?
2007-06-11 16:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by MsPotatohead 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
also, I really feel sorry for her, so I let her tag along...
2007-06-11 16:44:43 · update #1
She's kind of annoying, a turn off to other people...
2007-06-12 12:23:55 · update #2
ALWAYS TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD LIKE THEM TO TREAT YOU... hope you and your so called mates never get into a position such as this poor girl is in...harden up woman, she is probably annoying to you guys because she sooo wants the closeness of friendship, stop being mean, and try to see the good in people, we all have some, wheres yours?as soon as you guys start treating her like how you treat your selves, you may find you quite like her, and she wasnt so bad after all, just give her a go, it is no more than you would expect for yourself
2007-06-19 15:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to be Little less worried about what your friends think. What if you were in her position, how would you like to be treated?
And why doesn't anyone wants this girl around? is she a bad person? If she is then i could see why you are worried but if not i think you need to tell your friends to be a Little more accommodating and humane.
I wouldn't want to be in her shoes at all but i certainly wouldn't push her away if i realize that i am the closest thing to a friend that she has.
2007-06-11 23:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a choice. Are you her friend or not. I have a feeling not everyone here is being honest. So quit wasting her time if you are not her friend. If you are her friend, tell the others how you really feel. If you arent tough enough to stand up to the crowd for a friend, you're not much of one.
2007-06-11 23:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Not a Techie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the group leader. They may complain but they go along with it. Is she annoying? Why don't they like her? I would actually talk to the girls and find out why they don't like her and if it is a stupid reason, tell them. Tell them to quiet being so conceited and think of someone else beside themselves.
2007-06-11 23:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions about it on the Internet! You obviously have thought long and hard about this problem and are perfectly justified asking complete strangers for advice. Here's my advice:
Like you shuld just tak 2 her and tell hr how you feel? cuz maybe shel get mad but shes not yor friend? my freinds told this guy like totaly don't talk to me? but then josh said like whatever omg i hate him soo much?
Hope this helps.
2007-06-11 23:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋