There is a girl I work with that isn't very attractive but I flirt with her all the time. She likes it she says it feels good that someone is paying attention to her.. It gives her confidence both of us are married she is happy in her marriage most of the time I am not but that is a different story LOL. But is it worn to tell her she is sexy when she isn't. I am doing it to boost her confidence.
2007-06-11 16:27:32 · 23 answers · asked by ♫Rock'n'Rob♫ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
wrong not worn LOL
2007-06-11 16:28:40 · update #1
Ido like her ewe are great friends but she is not very attractive and I tell her she is sexy to boost her confidence
2007-06-11 16:33:28 · update #2
I could care less what my wife does LOL
2007-06-11 16:34:31 · update #3
yeah she knows that is all in fun she is the one that said she likes it when guys flirt with her it makes her feel god. I never said I didn't like her we are good friends. She is a beautiful woman on the inside, when she isn't complaining LOL
2007-06-12 02:49:09 · update #4
There's nothing wrong with flirting (only if you mean what you say)........so if this woman is not attractive, then maybe other carefully chosen words like "you're so smart" or "you're so good at *whatever she does" or "wow, that outfit brings out your eyes" or something like that...........those would work better.........
2007-06-12 02:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The meaning of flirt is --To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.
If you both know it's playing and not serious I can't see any harm in it,but if either of you are reading something more into it then someone could get hurt and you should nip it in the bud.
If she is happy in her marriage why is she lacking attention and confidence?
All women like compliments but don't go over the top or she may think the grass is greener with you and if you are not interested that spells trouble!
2007-06-12 06:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to clarify, sexy isn't the face alone, but the whole personna of what energy a gal radiates from her inner & outer self. I'd bet 3 candy bars from where I am that gal
could melt them when she gets an idea of what her husband is in for when he gets home. Flirting is very healthy world
wide. If you can respond or say Thanks for that, you are
wholeheartedly alive. Confidence is not worn on the sleeve.
That could be manufactured second hand, Love.
2007-06-11 18:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by LuckyLilTroll2U 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um....from a girl's point of view, and dont take any offense, I think you should be kind of honest with her, but not too harsh...and don't lie to her because if she finds ouot that she isn't very attractive from someone else, she is gonna feel very sad. You should just be her good friend and tell her friendly things that boost her confidence. Instead of saying you look sexy, you should say I like the top u are wearing, or that u are very stylish.
Hope that helps!!
2007-06-11 16:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pam 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah, I think it's okay.
She's just getting something her husband isn't giving her.
You're both married, and she's happy in her marriage, she likes the attention, and is not gonna leave her husband to run away with you.
It's work time fun, if she took it any other way, she'd be a naive one...
2007-06-11 16:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Island*Chica 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she knows that she isn't attractive and knows that you're saying all the "you're sexy" comments to give her confidence, it's wrong. both of you are married, regardless of the fact that it boost her confidence. instead of giving her "you're sexy" comments, why not try giving her advice on how to boost her confidence and self esteem instead.
do you know if she tells her other half that you call her sexy?
2007-06-11 16:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by tenaciousone84 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are flirts..... some aren't. My husband and I are both flirts but we also know that it doesn't mean anything when either he or I do it..... He knows he can trust me.... I know I can trust him. As long as whoever you're flirting with knows that it is INNOCENT flirting and that it doesn't mean that you're interested in them, I don't think there's anything wrong with it especially since you're doing it to make someone feel better about herself and, again, she knows that it doesn't mean anything.
2007-06-11 16:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, as long as the person you are flirting with is already dating someone. If you did, I would personally slap you across the face for being a wise @$$.
2007-06-11 16:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a boost of self-confidence yourself
2007-06-11 16:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Cara and Dave 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol, sure you are doing it to boost her ego!
You are doing it because as you said , you are not happy in your marriage , its fine to flirt with her but never take it too far as her husband may not be unhappy and want to kick your azz.
2007-06-11 17:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋