My husband is unable to have an orgasm regularly. He will have one very few times in the month. We have sexual intercourse more than 5 times a week. Is this unhealty and/or is there an underlying medical issue?
2007-06-11 16:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by COOKIE K 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He is not bored, nor gay..We have a very active sex life. I believe it is a medical issue and he is very concerned. He does not want to go to the doctor about this, as most men do not. I was looking into some factors and they list steroids, hyper tension, which he takes medication for. He is only 35. Does this help? And I would appreciate only real answers, not idiot responses. Thanks.
2007-06-11 16:30:53 · update #1
We have a regular sex life, usually by his initation. He makes note that he does not ejaculate. Maybe I should have used that instead or orgasm? He does not have issues with performance, but he does have high stress, high blood pressure and works out and has for years. Anything more clarified?
2007-06-11 16:49:56 · update #2
He does ride mountain bikes. He complains about hitting himself on them. But he also tells me that he has not "***" during sex, which i try not to associate with me. He comes with oral stimulation or masterbation. Does this make a difference?
2007-06-11 17:18:40 · update #3
Go see a doctor this could be the beginning of a medical issue.
2007-06-11 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert but am a guy that is getting close to 60 years old.When i was a young man i could do it every day and no problem with orgasm.Now it's once or twice a week,and we've been married 37 years,so my wife knows how to get me off.Your hubby may be getting bored,so check out some porno dvds and watch them together.It will definitely get him excited and you both might learn a few new things that you could try.Communication is vital in a marriage.One thing he must understand is that he can't force you to do something you don't want to.I'd love it if my wife would do oral sex on me,but she finds it repulsive,so I don't force her.Variety and surprises in the bedroom are always welcome.Good luck.
2007-06-11 23:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between ejaculating and orgasms. In fact in tantra sex it is a goal to get to "dry" orgasms. But if you are having sex 5 XS a week and he only ejaculates a few times a month he might want to be checked out. I wonder though if he rides a bike frequently or if you ( during sex ) put pressure on the area that sits between his scrotum and anus?
This can cause the ejaculate to be redirected into the bladder instead of into the urethra. A urologist will help you out.
2007-06-12 00:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by charlene s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just has a lot on his mind; work, etc. Maybe his "little swimmers" just can't keep up with your frequent schedule. If both of you are still enjoying your intimacy, then is it really necessary for him to orgasm every single time? Do you? In a perfect world, sex should be about sensuality and intimacy, not just orgasm. For that matter, there is more to sex than just intercourse. Maybe its time for something new.
If he seems overly concerned about it, then a doctor can check his plumbing.
2007-06-11 23:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its maybe due to his age. he has to take drugs. Talk to him and consult a doctor. Only they can help ok.TC
2007-06-11 23:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Divan K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop fu ckin him. its ur fault. if u dooooo it 2 much, u wont be able 2 feel it
2007-06-11 23:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe his mistress has him drained by the time he gets to you....
2007-06-11 23:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by michelobjohn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its ur fault
2007-06-11 23:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by J1ZZ IN MY PANTS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not having a penis
2007-06-11 23:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's gay
2007-06-11 23:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Trv the Prv 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋