if you were...........?

Question

well if you were maby 15 or 16 years old, and you met a girl or guy on the internet and knew that the person wasnt a predator, and then fell in love with the person, would you meet them in person some time in the future? even if they lived on the other side of the country?

and please dont sit here nad criticize me. i dont care what you ppl say about the cyber dating stuff.

i have known her for a little m ore than 3 months and we talk everyday, on the microphones. so i am positive she isnt a predator. she lives 7 states away.

like i said before, i am 100% positive she is not a predator, unless some other person has been putting her on every time i talk to her. which i dout.

if yall get google talk, you can talk to her, and then tell me that shes a predator.

i know a lot of stuff about her, where she lives when her birthday is, things like that. and i am posistive she is not a predator. i have been talking to her for 3 months now. do you think a predator would talk to someone for 3 weeks? and where i met her from, other ppl know her in person from school.

OMG!!!! I AM TELLING YOU THTA I AM 100% POSITIVE THAT SHE IS NOT A PREDATOR. I KNOW OTHER PPL THAT KNOW HER IN PERSON. AND AT SCHOOL, I HAVE TALKED TO HER BROTHER, AND HER FRIENDS FROM SCHOOL AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT SHE ISNT A PREDATOR!!!!! damn

by the way, we are cyber dating now. and i have not felt like this about anybody. i feel, ummm, i dont know how to explain it, but i guess if we are meant to be together longer, then something will happen for us to meet in person, i guess

omg ppl, i talk to her on the computer over the microphone. i hear her voice evryday. do you think a predator would spend 3 months talking to one preson?

Answer 1

u dont know that they arent a preditor really but if you are sure. that ya but definately wait. and do it in a public area. my husbands sister met her husband that way

Answer 2

I would definitely keep the friendship going. Since you are the guy, I doubt you are being chased by a female predator, it's not very common. I think the internet is a resourceful tool in dating today. It's an easy way to meet people. To me it's way better than meeting someone in a bar. I will have to say though that you are very young, and it probably won't last forever. I don't think it would hurt anything to give it a shot as long as you have a responsible adult to know what you are up to. But, even if you don't have the resources at this age to meet in person, you should still keep in contact. You never know what can develop when you are out of school. Maybe you could go to college at the same university. Good luck with your new friend.

Answer 3

Dude some predators spend years talking to ppl & there's no way to tell if they're a predator or not. Even if you heard they're voice. Why? because 1st of all they have things called voice changers. I had one when i was in 4th grade [im in 9th now] 2nd: you can't tell what a person is like by the sound of your voice. But if you don't care about my advice 7 are going to meet them anyway, i suggest that you don't go alone.

Answer 4

Of course, I'd meet that person in the future or even tomorrow. I've met lots of men through internet sites and only one was scary and he's not the one in prison now.

There are safety tips. You let people know where you are, you meet in a public place and you leave that public place separately. She can come to your area.

At your age, your parents are not going to let you travel across country by yourself to meet someone they don't know and can't check out, which is a good thing. Let them meet her and then they can retreat across the restaurant or park while you two talk face-to-face for a while.

If you act sensibly, your parents should agree to the meeting in principle, even if they balk at paying for the travel. Start saving your money and acting like someone who's got good judgement.

Answer 5

Six words: Dateline Nbc To Catch A Predator. Think about it. Not a very good idea.

Answer 6

No, you shouldn't. This person MIGHT be a predator and something bad might happen. What happens if the other person doesn't want to meet you? You should just talk to each other online. Oh yeah, have you ever heard of cyberbullies? Be careful.

Answer 7

you dont love her. you've never met her. There are couples (in person) that think they love eachother and the second you two move in together you realize how different you are and they split. It takes more than conversation to love someone. It takes experience together. People can be whoever they want on the computer. get to know her in person and you might grow to love her. You might know her dislikes, likes, favorite food, birthday, etc.. but you still don't know 2% of her. There are things about a person you can't explain. Their temper when they don't get their way, she could be abusive when she gets mad, etc.. you need to get to know her more before you say you love her

Answer 8

how can you be sure she isnt a man and a predator. people lie and many are good at it. i say its too dangerous. internet dating should be illegal go meet girls at school

Answer 9

ok so u say your 100% sure... but how do u know! (She) could be a 60 year old guy molester! you have no clue if the information that (she) is giving you is true. SHE COULD BE LIEING!!!! She could be lieig about her b-day, and her state, and here age, and her gender!!!! DONT DO IT! More poeple die that way than your tiny mind can imagine!

Answer 10

i definitely agree with the public place. that way if they turn out to be a predator, you will be in public view and not in as much danger