how can i break my hymen so i dont have to put up with the embarasment when my partner does it?

Answer 1

First of all, how old are you? And why should you break your hymen. Get more information about the hymen first.
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Bill J you are right, many guys don't even know what that is and it is not the same in many women and even some of them get tear before the first sexual act. The hymen is not the door that gets open in the first act of sex. To all of you get informed. In this time and ages that all can get informed we should not even been asking such a question or answering in a way that some people here do. And for the lady with the tampon problem, you had pain with inserting your tampon because you were pushing it and probably tearing the delicate area of your vagina not that you were breaking your hymen. The first sexual act not necessarily have to be painful if the partner is not forcing his member inside the vagina, we are well lubricated and not tense or nervous about the situation. The breaking or better said the tearing of the hymen is not at all that painful unless someone is tearing it apart.

Answer 2

Why would you want to lose your hymen to a banana or a tampon???? - i hate to tell you but there are a lot worse things in life than the embarrassment of your hymen breaking the first time you have sex. If you arent mature enough to cope with the concept, you probably arent ready for sex. Look at it this way - bleeding is the symbol of the gift that you have just given to the man you chose to share your first time with. I bled so little i didnt even know that i did, months after he said there had been a tiny bit on the condom. It wasnt embarrassing or uncomfortable. Deliberately breaking your hymen means you are cheating yourself of a intimate and special moment between you and the man you give your virginity to.

Answer 3

LISTEN TO ME! I don't care if I get points, but do not shove stuff up there - especially a vegetable!
How old are you? Have you used a tampon? Are you athletic at all?
Most women are born with a tiny opening in the hymen, and it frequently is 'broken' during any sport or athletic activity, or using a tampon.
You don't need to be embarassed about it - everyone has sex for the first time - once!
You should check in a mirror to see your entire perineum, and odds are there will be an opening there already.

Answer 4

Why? This is a little carzy. Don't worry about it. A majority of guys do not even know what a hymen is let alone what it looks like.
If you use tampons or are athletic you may not even have your hymen any more.
Having a hymen used to be an important thing!

Answer 5

In some culture a hymen is considered as a proof of virginity, so if your partner is from one of these cultures he is going to be very pleased with you if not then, you can do some stretching exercises or yoga but horse riding is the best way

Answer 6

Some hymens break easily, some stretch, some break with difficulty or won't; that's why there's actually an operation called a "hymenotomy".

Answer 7

Well, I'm not sure you SHOULD do it yourself, but I did it by accident when I was putting in a tampon at about 14 years old. I read that you're supposed to keep pushing the tampon up inside yourself until you no longer felt it. I kept feeling it so I kept pushing it up. I didn't realize what I had done at the time, but it was very painful, so if you choose to do it, be prepared. Only good thing about the experience was that my first sexual experience was not painful at all.

Answer 8

Ok your hymen will break when you slide your finger into your vagina, of course it may already be broken if you play sport or use tampons, dont worry let him break it when you have sex dont need to break it first

Answer 9

most girls break their hymens naturally just through normal activity.

Answer 10

dont be ridiculous. not only is that extremely dangerous, any guy good enough to share that experience with wont care.