Do you believe if a man were to discipline his wife by spanking that it would be considered domestic violence?

Question

by spanking I mean with his hand or a paddle.

Answer 1

Yes this is domestic violence and he should be charged as such. No person has a right to lay a hand on another person.

Answer 2

Yes, even if in a consensual relationship where the wife agrees to be spanked by her husband for transgressions, some states, including Florida, will still consider it domestic violence. However, this is not the case if it's the man that is being spanked by the wife, if that's relevant to your question.

Now, if the spankings were not consensually agreed to, then no state would disagree that the spankings would be domestic abuse. Even the spanking community will agree that a domestic discipline relationship should be consensual for all parties, though I have seen some sites that claim that a husband has a God-given right to discipline his wife. These are mostly wackos, though, and I'm atheist, anyway. :P

That being said, a consensual disciplinary relationship can be as healthy as any vanilla relationship, and perhaps more so. How many people can truly say that they always do EXACTLY what they should, without being pushed. Have you ever stayed up too late on the internet, even though you KNOW you have to get up early? Have you ever tried to quit smoking, only to give up because you don't have "the willpower" for it? Ever wonder if you'd do better with these things if someone was reminding you that there are repercussions for actions?

Answer 3

It depends of the source. If you spanking a woman for pleasure or because the most stupidest thing, that's a domestic violence, but if she done something unforgivable or bad is not, is discipline.

Answer 4

yeah if its comfortable and exciting or she asks for it vocally. its exciting yet not all women individuals like it and that i don't think of its "christian" the two, there's a christian kinfolk self-discipline internet site yet they are extremely cult like. IF the two women individuals agree then it could help relieve tension and make your marriage extra exciting and you do discover you admire one yet another too even so I delight in it lolz. If i did not delight in it there is not any way EVER i might agree and that i hate the certainty some women individuals are decreased to tears and would desire to stand in the nook for as long because of the fact the husband comes to a decision or those "maintenance" spankings the place women individuals get spanked very harshly each evening or two times each week etc to enable them to comprehend who's boss. Yeah all people is loopy and those women individuals conform to it so as that they comprehend what they are in for, its basically uncomplicated cruel to me yet hi.....

Answer 5

I am a dispatcher and have had this conversation with police officers. The way I understand it is...If both parties agree and it is 100% consensual, it is NOT domestic violence. To keep yourself safe, it is best to have on record a signed "discipline contract" that both the husband and wife have agreed to and signed. This will help keep you out of trouble.

Answer 6

Sandstorm, you're great! I am a fan. You really are too much...... If a man were to discipline his wife by spanking her it wouldn't be considered domestic violence, it would probably be the worst beating of his life! 1. for assuming he could 'spank' her and 2. for actually trying to do it.

LOL!!

Answer 7

I think YOU need diiplined with a spanking but don't ask me to do it because you'd get way too turned on and that would just gross me out.

Are you married? I cannot imagine anyone buying into your B.S.

Answer 8

We aren't living in the middle ages. It would absolutely be considered domestic violence. A wife is not an object or a naughty child. It is not a husband's job to discipline a wife.

Answer 9

If the spanking is meant as a form of discipline and against one person's will, yes that is a form of abuse. If it is a mutually agreed form of foreplay, no it's not abuse.

Answer 10

Discipline? Wife? How dare you use both those words in the same sentence! By the way, as long as the neighbors and/or the police don't find out, you're in the clear.