If they contacted you, would you be tempted to meet up to see if you still had any feelings for them or would you rather it stayed in your memory
2007-06-11 10:25:17 · 26 answers · asked by ? 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ah, a pleasant thought.
My first love.
So many years ago but the memory is as fresh as yesterday.
But, I think it is best left as a memory. Both of us have changed so much since then. Both have developed, I would imagine, in different ways.
No. I would prefer to keep my first love as a memory.
Why risk ruining it?
2007-06-11 10:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think you have to be out of your mind to meet up with the past. Look at it this way if you still had feelings for that person then why ain't the two of you together now? Leave the past in the past and keep your memories,they won't let you down.
2007-06-11 19:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with my very first love... All the way back from school...
That was a memory I wanted to be more, so I found him, and it made both of us happy. But I never stopped having feelings for him.
2007-06-11 17:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do and I still care about him. The thing is he treated me pretty bad ( not abusive or anything). I had the opportunity to meet with him again and it turned out he still acted like he was still a teenager (he was 34 at the time). So since then I decided "What's the use?"
2007-06-11 17:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's in the past.. there's a reason why we never stayed together, and it's because of that relationship that I grew from it and learned from it, and now I'm with a great, wonderful, loving caring person. Looking back on it now, had I stayed with my first love, I think I would've killed him by now.. LOL! There's things I could've accepted from him as a friend, not a BF.
2007-06-11 17:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by chicyuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would meet up with him in a heartbeat. Too many good memories with him to not give it another chance. I dont think anyone ever stops thinking of their first love. lol
2007-06-11 17:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by Monica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would meet up with my first love, but I don't have any more feelings for him and it would just be a cool hang out and go our separate ways at the end. No big deal.
2007-06-11 21:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by funkyfree4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After too much time, memories would serve a person best.
2007-06-11 17:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Diane G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still think of mine. I always remember his birthday and wonder how he's doing. I know I don't still have feelings for him, but I'd love to chat with him to catch up on things.
2007-06-11 17:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond Diva 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my first love contacted me, it would be by long distance call as he died 18 months ago. I still think of him very often.
2007-06-11 17:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Dolores & the prune 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋