I am a caretaker, and until yesterday I was caring for this 33 yr. old woman with Cerebral Palsy...?

Question

I cared for her at her apt. in San Francisco every Sat/Sun, I had just begun the job at the end of May, and yesterday she called me and said she no longer needed me or my services, and when I asked why, she said "I dont think were compatible", and I'm like what the f---, because in all my life I have never heard of such a thing, everytime I showed up I was always 30 mins. early for my shift, I did everything I was supposed to do for her, I even walked her mangy mutt and put meds in his eyes, she lives with her fiance who is also physically handicapped and has his own caregiver, I always came in with a smile and sunny disposition willing to do whatever it took to make her comfortable, being only there for 5 days, I can imagine what I could have done wrong to make her feel the way she does, we had pleasant conversations, but I must admit when I'm at work I'm about my business, and I take it very seriously, I've been racking my brain all night trying to figure out what I did wrong...

Answer 1

maybe your personality just didn't fit with hers. You can't blame yourself for any of this.