I'm 14 and gay and have met a boy which I have a major crush on. He says hes straight but acts differently. Sometimes he gets flirty with me. How do I know if he likes me?
2007-06-11 09:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you can always ask him....it isn't a crime, nor is it an expression of sexual interest to like someone. I like alot of people I would never consider having sex with.
2007-06-11 09:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's always tough when you deal with someone that claims that they are straight. The best thing I can say is to let them make a move. If you make a move and he rejects you, you could end up heart broken. It's better to wait for him. It can be tough, but just stick in there. And if he isn't gay, don't worry...their are others out there for you.
2007-06-11 09:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy, he'll tell you if he does, you just have to wait it out.
But realize he could just be flirting with you to get attention, I've met a few men like this, with no intentions of going further.
In other words, don't get your hopes up too high.
2007-06-11 12:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as homosexual love it is all carnal. Trust me gay porn may give you pleasure but it does not satisfy the relationship that God has created for a man and a woman. I hope you find your way and make the right decision.
2007-06-11 10:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by eli234 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out. Movies and a hamburger. Get to know him better. See what develops.
2007-06-11 09:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he wants to hang out one day and bring him home, see if he acts differenly. Just make sure he's into you, not sex.
2007-06-11 09:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Davie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him his preference. After that you can only take him at his word, that is the only honourable way.
2007-06-11 09:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by shatterbrat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are really too young to be Choosing to be gay... there is no proof it is genetic. You are confused and hormonal... Give your self time... and be open to being straight too.
2007-06-11 09:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by tlcbaotou 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well if he's in denial theres not much you can do.Flirt back and see where it goes from there.If he likes you he will escalate things.
2007-06-11 09:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Vigilante 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋