Here is the deal. I go to college with this girl who i help alot with classwork but thats as far as it goes. I know i can make her hapy but she doesnt give me the time of day besides when she needs help with school. I really care for her just seeing her smile makes me so happy with myself and with life. she brings such a joy to my day that i yern to be with her even if we jsut spoke to each other more i would be happy with that.
So my question is is there anyway to put a spell on her to lure her to me even if we just spoke to each other more like on AOL or the phone perhaps. then maybe i can win her over that way? Anyone who helps will be greatly appreicated.
2007-06-11
09:00:46
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I appraicate the respones but i need something simple she likes some other kid who is so ugly.i need something that will make her see i am better then him.
2007-06-11
09:21:48 ·
update #1
In regard to the post about niceness being a mans weakness. I tried helping her because one i am a genuily nice guy and rather be myself to attract a mate then be mean to her. I try IMing her just to say whats up and i told her if she ever wanted to chat she can IM me and she never did. and she knows i have money she sees the BMW i drive and my apartment i rent by myself so she knows i have money
2007-06-11
09:30:22 ·
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After reading and pondering questions i know its too late for me. Maybe one day women will choose to see beyond the mystery of a man and just settle with someone who is nice, financially secure and warm hearted.. My intelligence is very vast and deep and i can talk about anything with anyone and back it with knowledge. I guess for now she will only be with me when i dream and hopefully one day she will see and feel what i feel for her thank you for all your answers.
2007-06-11
10:13:29 ·
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it seems that you are infatuated. if she is not interested, keep her in the back of your mind and find someone who is. you will drive yourself crazy trying to find that one thing that makes her fall in love with you. but if you must try, just giver a couple sunflowers before school lets out for summer and tell her how much you enjoyed spending time with her and helping her out this year. tell her you guys should "do something over summer." win or lose, you are telling her what's up without being creepy or obsessive. the only spell you can cast is being yourself, and no girl in the world wants someone that has to change to make it work(even though they say they do.).
2007-06-16 03:39:29
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answered by Anonymous
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If asking her out doesn't work, and being mean to her doesn't work, then the best idea is to use the old standby. Money! No I'm just kidding. For one you should find yourself a Red candle. This symbolizes love. Next you need to put a little time into focusing what you want to achieve in this relationship. Focus that energy on the candle when it's lit. Doing this outside, in the moonlight will help some. When you play out in your mind how you want the scenario to go it will be easier to manage when the time comes to impliment it. Finally you have to know that regardless of anything else women are attracted to confidence obviously. So the best thing you can do is not even waste one thought thinking about how she's gonna turn you down. Keep thinking about how great you'll feel when she accepts your date offer, and how fun the date will be when you meet her. Always think about the best possible results. If you believe whole heartedly that she would be the happiest woman if she spent time with you, then soon it will come true. Focus on the positivity of your relationship, and go from there. You can trick her & see if she wants to meet you for a drink or food, while you discuss the classwork. Tell her that you can't fit in any time besides when you're going to get a drink/bite real quick. Believe as much as you can that she will say yes. Believe. Just believe totally, and the possibilities are endless. You can do it, and I believe in you.
2007-06-11 09:22:29
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answered by Johnny Afman 5
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You are clearly just too needy. If you actually wanted to be with her you'd be straightforward with her instead of bringing your issues online. At the very least, be a friend to her (not in the "if you ever want to talk, I'm here for you" kind of way which is too general and kind of creepy): share some hobbies/activities, hang out at the same places, preferably in a group setting where you can subtly juxtapose yourself and this other guy so she can see for herself what she likes and wants. back off and let her decide for herself, the two of you will repect youselves more in the long run.
2007-06-11 12:18:42
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answered by Ginny 4
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Be yourself and find out what she likes. Bring her some flowers on her birthday, buy some candy that she likes and eat it with her near you, then offer her some. You can turn being a nice guy into a very valuable asset in the game of Life and Love. Don't be an @$$ to her. It would only ruin your chances. And since you say that seeing her happy makes you happy I can tell that you truly love her.
2007-06-11 10:05:53
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answered by Abyssion 2
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STOP helping her GODDAMMIT!!! will the leader of the pack ever help and kiss upto a female in the group???NO! which is why hez the LEADER...and you better start acting like youre worth a lot more to her than she is to you...helping her will send all the wrong signals...niceness is a weak man"s last resort...
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http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/double-your-dating-articles/why-nice-guys-fail-with-women.htm
youre doing all the wrong things bro...BTW niceness and meanness are BOTH traits of a weak man...i was talking more about confidence,dignity,valuing your time and knowing your self worth...stop putting her on a pedestal.
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trust me...therez nothing i luv more than telling people how wrong they are...especially the intelligent ones...its 3am where i live so ill be making my argument tomorrow...keep this question open...later!
2007-06-11 09:24:39
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answered by Spiderpig 3
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a) Confidence is a very strong aphrodisaic.
b) Get her off the high pedestal; you'll never reach her that way. She's a person just like you. Of course it does help if she likes you back.
2007-06-16 13:16:23
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answered by ta 5
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stop trying. Most women want men they can't have..just like men. Do not be so available. Exude confidence and ask her for help and advice even if you do not need it.. Women are also nurturers . Most women want to rescue their men. They do not want to be needy they want to be needed. Find the balance.
2007-06-17 14:50:08
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answered by pat 4
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Find someone who is interested in you rather than creating situations where you will be used.
Wanting someone who doesn't want you is masochistic. Accept it. And find someone who will appreciate you. Or, accept that she has no interest in you beyond what you already have. Eventually, you will tire of the one-sided relationship.
2007-06-11 09:57:38
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answered by guru 7
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hipnotise her and tell her anything and she will obey!
use a yo yo or something put on string and tell her to follow
the thing or yo yo make shure she follows the thing or yo yo
and she will obey anything you say! just make shure u two are
alone when you hipnotiseing her! good luck!
2007-06-11 09:16:55
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answered by Prettybutterfly 2
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I don't think spells work. Just go up and talk to her. If she likes you then she will be receptive to your attention.
2007-06-11 09:08:09
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answered by All <3 1
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