Women seem to always want more out of ther men for no other reason than they want it.
However, men seem to be bending over backwards to try and make their women happy.
Sex seems to be something men want, but when asked how to increase the sex men are told to be more romantic. This answer seems to tell men to buy sex with romance. Like usual woman give bad advice about relationship. Women seem to try to constently inprove their standing, but what their spouse is willing to do for them. This makes me think women may be very good at sexual economics, but completely heatless when it comes to romance.
Romance should be given freely, just like sex and to put restiction on like women do is just wrong.
What are your thoughts?
2007-06-11 08:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes they are. why some of the best moments were ideas from my man and i didnt have to school him at all.
2007-06-11 08:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snack-daddy,I guess it all depends on others, agree?? As a woman all that I want from a man or from my ex was to see me as I am,show me affection and passion, but unfortunately my ex was or is an old school so I can say that our intimacy was not that great, it was I that pursue foreplay, he is not a talkative man, nor romantic. It was I that have all of this and yet he broke my heart to a married woman.
I can't never give bad advice to others unless it's a joke to break the ice. And yes you are right sex is what men's wants but there's a lot out there that is not romantic,(no offense guys, not all of you do). Maybe there are some that wants a lot out of men but it's part of loving that person. But one thing I can say from my own experience, women do get matured early than men does...
2007-06-11 16:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute...so many accusations in one paragraph, I don't know where to start!
Ok...women wanting more out of their men...yes, they often do...and men want more out of their women too, don't you agree? I mean, to think like you do, I could say: "Men want more sex from their women for no reason except that they want it." That's about the same thing, isn't it...
Romance, well that's a tricky word outside of the usual dating flowers, candy, dinner and dancing thing...
I think what qualifies for romance in a marriage isn't just those things, though I wouldn't exclude them. The little things count, is what it comes down to. And that goes both ways of course, whether it be a massage, or any little thoughtful thing, such as remembering your spouses favorite ice cream flavor.
Some romance, as in the dating kind, is nice to have continued after marriage, but lots of it isn't necessary. Instead, what is needed from both partners is consideration for all those little things that add up, and respect, not making executive decisions, and seeking out your spouses opinion on anything that concerns both of you.
As far as for sex...you can make hints, but you can't demand it, that would be quite wrong. If your partner isn't in the mood for sex, I'm sure you can think up other ways to enjoy being with them. (and that's a kind of foreplay really...that simple enjoyment of their company can be a turn on and change their mind).
2007-06-11 16:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at this from the wrong perspective. Women are telling guys to be romantic, not buy sex. You can be romantic without spending a dime. Cuddle up to her while watching a movie at home, leave a post it note on the bathroom mirror telling her she is beautiful, actually PAY ATTENTION to her, kiss her when she isn't expecting it, hold her hand while driving, call her in the middle of the day just to tell her you love her/want to hear her voice. Women are turned on in different ways than guys. Women tend to incorporate more feelings into sex and like more intimacy. We are not asking you to spend millions of dollars on flowers or dinners out....we are asking you to show us that we are worth those millions of dollars, though. Make her feel priceless and like she is the only girl in the world.... and she will be more than happy to reciprocate with more action in the bedroom.....
2007-06-11 15:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are wired differently. Men are visual, women are emotional. If our man makes us feel sexy and desired and wanted, then we believe that we truly are all of those things and will ACT on those feelings. If our man just wants sex all the time and states it in that way, we feel like that's all that we are wanted for.
It's not hard to get a woman to want you more...just want her more and watch the fireworks.
2007-06-11 15:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋