Men Only...If Your Spouse/GF Cheated On You...?

Question

This question is for men only...

Men..if you're in a serious relationship...either with a girl-friend or wife...and you found out they had cheated on you and lied to you about it...would you end the relationship and choose to never talk to that person again. or would you still want to be friends with that person?

Answer 1

you could never trust her again....it would be impossible to be just friends with her because you would always think she has changed,plus you would always want to bang her...and you would be jealous of new men in life.... and once a cheater always a cheater

Answer 2

I have been through this. My g/f did not lie about it...not for long at least. She did however, end up pregnant, chose to get an abortion, then blamed the whole thing on me. When she first told me about it, I said I understood why it happened (I was out of town on business and went to dinner with a co-worker so of course, I had tohave had sex with the woman, right??), so it was revenge. Since I was understanding she got very mad at me and spent several days telling what a horrible person I was for not kicking her out of my life. Then after the abortion, she blamed me for the affair, her getting pregnant, and the abortion (which she chose to have after I told her I would respect her opinion and stand by her no matter what, but did not want to be a father) and continued to scream at me on a daily basis (because it was obviously my fault she got pregnant, not because of the other guy) until I told her I was sterile (later I found that I was not *completley sterile, although had I been tested at the time they would have called me sterile, over the years, the numbers had changed and now they consider someone like me "borderline"). At that point she no longer blamed me, but left me because I had helped her grow so much she needed to be on her own.

So, would I still want to be friends, yes, I would in fact continue the relationship as long as she allowed in the exact same way it had always been.

Answer 3

cheating truly has greater to do with the Cheater fairly than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they try to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they experience entitled to greater interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer something to do with love- that's truly greater approximately self-loathing, and perceived desires as against certainly desires. while men or females cheat- they understand that's incorrect, and that's incorrect with the aid of fact hurting somebody else is on no account good for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they could rationalize cheating by technique of telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet the two a sort of start up from interior of. Love is a decision- so is happiness, and you will distract your self with new human beings or studies, yet faster or later you capture as much as your self after which you should start yet back or fix the project.

Answer 4

There is a million girls out there, don't waste your time with one. Hell date them all, then you pick. Base your decision on time and effort put into the relationship. The wife situation is more complicated while a girlfriend is replaceable immediately. Times ten if its with a kid. Just don't be late with the child support. Or if your a playa then just stay in the relationship and cheat on her. Hey she might even be down with a swingers party.

Answer 5

Id end it in a heartbeat. if they lied about it once theyll do it and lie again.. once a cheater always a cheater.. ya know? and i would never talk to them again cuz u know if it was serious then youll still have fealings for thaa person later so cut the contact

Answer 6

I'd definitely end the relationship - do it now, don't look back. Going back to that person just tells them that they can get by with that kind of behaviour. They have set a precedent.

Don't fall for it. There are women out there who are worthy of your devotion. Get rid of the one that isn't.

Answer 7

I would probably want to still be friends, but I wouldn't see a point in remaining in a committed relationship that was not honored. I would also do a little bit of yelling. lol

Answer 8

You should try to end it. I'm sure you may hear her say she's sorry for it and it'll never happen again, but the trust is no longer there. I would end it and not speak to the person anymore. END IT!

Answer 9

I would end it and not waste my time or energy on a person who's not trustworthy. Trust is a big deal, even with friends. You deserve better from a girlfriend and a friend.

Answer 10

I wouldn't end the relationship. I would find the guy and break both of his kneecaps. Then never trust my wife again.

Answer 11

I would end the relationship because all relationships are based on trust. When the trust is gone nothing can replace it.