For the ladies: love of your life goes by.....???

Question

if you meet who you think is the love of your life, like honey and exploding stars from moment one,...
and you find that he is bound, but unhappily.... what do you do?

Answer 1

Wait for him. He is worth it, And if he isnt happily bound then the relationship probly wont last so stick around. Alothough I dont beleive in messing around with married men, exspecially when there children involved. If its as good as you make it sound than who cares..go for it!

Answer 2

I'd realize that it's his decision to be 'bound' as you expressed it and not think that he is helpless to change it. That's the oldest story going and apparently still meeting with great success. Did someone 'hogtie him'? Maybe he was 'trapped' and held hostage until he got someone pregnant? Did his parents make him do it? Is he staying out of guilt? To answer your question....NOTHING. If he were the love of your life he'd be with you instead of your merely being the mistress. That's straight up....regardless of how cruel you may perceive my response. If you like drama, keep whining for the married man to come around. I'd bet he likes drama too, and you'll eventually get to meet the wife. You know...the wife...the love of his life. Maybe you all three can meet at the clinic after he shares the disease that he obtained from a fourth woman that neither of you knew about. Why, oh why, do women still believe that a married man that is willing to cheat on his wife is honest and/or faithful. Don't learn the hard way. Smarten up and cut yourself loose. You have nothing to gain.

Answer 3

He is bound, enough said there. Don't do it. Why be the other woman? That is all you will be, the other woman. If he is so unhappy, then if he chooses let him get out of the relationship and then see if you two are meant to be. But don't do to another woman what you would not done to yourself. (Same thing goes for men as well.) If he cheats on her with you, what makes you think he will not cheat on you with another.

Answer 4

Good question, I think the best thing is to just wait...it's not fair to the other ppl in the relationship to get hurt. If he is truly unhappy, he will do what it takes to get free and move on...I have seen alot of guys say they were unhappy just to get some strange, and they dont even care how you feel, so because you think he is your soul mate, you gotta wonder are you his?

Answer 5

If he has let you know he's unhappy then he might be sending out signals that he wants to cheat. DON'T be flattered, thinking that makes you special! If he'll cheat with you he'll cheat on you. If he's hasn't sent out signals, then his relationship, happy or not is none of your concern. If he wants out he should do that on his own. In the meantime there are lots of great unattached guys out there. Avoid the the drama.

Answer 6

Encourage my love to break free. . . but don't be a mistress for the long-term. Set a date when my support will end if my love is still bounc, and stick to it.

Answer 7

if he is bound, then he is not the love of your life. duhh

Answer 8

Wait until he does something on his own, then you will know he is truley free to see others.

Answer 9

well.. if he is unhappy then why is he still there? I say if he is unfaithful, then what makes you think he won't be unfaithful to you?

Answer 10

wait... be his friend... but nothing else... if he cheats on her with you he will cheat on you with her.... just be his friend and wait it out.