Is it wrong to take part in sexual activities with someone just because you're physically attracted to them?

Question

well morally it's wrong right, but for at least the moment it will make you feel good, what are your opinions on this and one night stands aswell

Answer 1

Your heart has all the answers. How does it feel?

Answer 2

I think the price you pay in the end is too high. It is a kind of lie to yourself and the other person involved. The problem with it's being morally wrong is that if the universe is moral, then violating that morality cannot have good consequences. To feel good for a moment and regret for a lifetime, what good is that?

On top of the emotional lie are the possible physical consequences, like certain kinds of incurable illnesses,
or unwanted pregnancies which lead on to further difficult choices.

I believe you will find that sex outside of the marriage commitment is always destructive at some level.

Maggie

Answer 3

As long as both parties are open and honest about their expectations - no harm done.

It becomes wrong when one or both of you is married or dating someone exclusively and your actions are entirely selfish with no regard for the feelings or emotions of the other involved.

I've had my fair share of unencumbered sex, the point being. Make sure you are both on the same page.

It's a one night thing. It can go on as long as no feelings are being hurt... whatever. Just make sure that it's laid out before you do the act. You can't take it back once you've started and the key is to be on the same page.

Answer 4

Sex is the ultimate physical manifestation of the celebration of values between a man and woman.Show me what a person finds sexually attractive, and I can tell you their entire philosophy on life.

Sex qua sex is not bad, it is biologically neutral. Just like peeing and eating, it is a fundamental act in nature, therefore neither intrinsically good or bad. But human beings are rational animals, therefore their actions can be grouped into choices of morality. And sex has evolved in humans to become more than a mere device for procreation. It is an act of the most sacred intimacy. That's why rape is such a reviled crime in every human culture; it is a violation of the core of a woman's being.

Therefore, the way a person treats their most intimate part of the body is the way they view their body as a whole. A young girl who carelessly sleeps around with multiple partners is simply an empty person, filling the void of her life with the artificial attention. In the same manner, a man who spends his entire life hunting for sexual partners is only satisfying the most base aspect of his mind; and that is the fulfillment of carnal pleasures.

Now don't get me wrong, I reiterate that sex in and of itself is not a bad thing. In fact, with the right partner, it can be the most enjoyable act in your life, both physically and spiritually. However, I am not a Christian, and do not believe there is only one pre-ordained soulmate that you need to search for, and I think the idea of saving oneself for marriage is an antiquidated notion of female repression that dates back to ancient times. These are not the ancient times, women have been emancipated, and along with emancipation comes freedom, and more importantly, responsibility.

It is proven that only an extremely small percentage of people (even evangelicals) actually are able to save themselves until marriage, more often than not, hormonal pressures overtake the desire to cling to arbitrary religious decrees. And more often than not, that desire to avoid sex and everything that goes with it leads to naivety regarding the subject, which is why many fail to use a condom; they are ashamed of themselves while not caught up in the whirlwind of emotions, and try to make the decision they feel is morally superior, only to give in during the heat of the moment. "It just happened" has become the clarion cry for an entire generation of young girls who are still taught that they would become vile tramps if they even pretended sex existed. That is why among young girls, Evangelicals are the most promiscuious, and Jews are the least. By adopting a more realistic attitude about sex and self-esteem, Jewish teenagers are better able to control themselves than the girls who just try to repress that aspect of themselves entirely.

I think numerous people can share similar positive values, so in my mind, an unmarried couple who have sex for the right reasons are morally superior to a loveless marriage, where sex is a sacrifice that one partner gives to the other for the sake of pity or pleasure. And like all activities, there needs to be caution and moderation exercised, as there are risks involved with this act, pregnancy being among the least of these risks.

Answer 5

I do not commit one night stands. However, I do enjoy sexual relations with people, simply because I feel attratced to them physically. I will talk about what I want from that person before hand, so they understand just where they stand with me. I feel there is nothing wrong with having sex before mariage, with all the proper precautions, or having casual relationships, as long as EVERYONE knows and agreed to what the relationship is before hand. I do not cheat, and have never knowingly been 'the other woman'. So, no, to me, it isn't wrong.

Answer 6

You're right. It will make you feel good for the moment! I'm sure when it's all over you won't feel the same. Yes one night stands are wrong but for the moment they feel right. Hormones take over and that's it.

Answer 7

I guess I'm old fashioned. I'd rather make love than just have sex for sex sake. One night stands, what's the point, besides Aids, Stds and the feeling of being used. I want to know someone pretty well before I become intimate with them. Just my opinion.

Answer 8

It is, simply, wrong. Not only morally wrong, religiously wrong, but will also mess up one's emotions and mental attitude towards the opposite sex. Then there is the risk for disease; aids didn't create itself!
If you want to feel good, find a sport or hobby.

Answer 9

Yes it is wrong. Sex is meant to be preserved for the marriage bed! What you do today will affect your future relationships, especially when you decide to make a commitment to marry someone. I have learned from experience that you will wish that you had saved yourself for your spouse. If you don't think this is true, you are just fooling yourself. 'Casual sex' is dangerous and can lead to a lot of heartache. Don't let the world tell you differently.

Answer 10

No it's not morally wrong. The fact is that it is the right thing to do. It's 100% natural.

Answer 11

Why would it be wrong. Are you supposed to only have sex with people you are not attracted to??

As long as you are two adults, and you are honest about your feelings and expectations. Sex is a normal healthy enjoyable activity. As long as both of you are enjoying it and no one is being mislead...enjoy.