which is the MOST IMPORTANT, a PLACE to Belong, a TIME to Remember, a THING to Treasure, or a PERSON to Love?

Question

the Where, the When, the What, & the Who...
Which is Which? How does it Matter the most?
Why do you think so?
:-)
Do you have all four of them?

Answer 1

I think if you have a place to belong, all the others just fall in to place like pieces of the puzzle, as this is most important.

Answer 2

Well the most important thing is all four but the answer to all 4 are the same the place i belong will always be a time to remember It's something I treasure It's right beside the person I love.

Answer 3

I do have all four of these but I guess it depends on the person’s life story to choose which of these are most important to them. However, to me these are important in the following order: A PERSON to Love, a PLACE to Belong, A THING to Treasure, and a TIME to Remember. A PERSON to Love has always been important to me every since I was younger. I mean, my own mother never showed me the proper amount of Love because she had her hands full with 10 kids; I accepted this as the ninth child but realized early that I would always be on the back burner although I always had Love in my own heart. A PLACE to Belong was always important to me because I wasn't accepted by my older siblings or my classmates, so that burdened me further. To not receive Love from your mom than to go to school and not have a best friend to turn to was even rougher. I always got talked about one thing or another no matter what it was. I've always had something to Treasure because it was my diaries or journals; I have always loved to express myself through poetry or just writing, in general; they were read by my older siblings who told all of my business which I hated them for. TIME has always been important to me because I love holding on to memories especially good ones. I can remember anything and everything that has ever happened to me.

Answer 4

I think (for me) A place to belong comes first. I think this because knowing where you stand in the world helps you feel your ground and gives you the desire to go further.
A person to love comes very close to been first but is secnd with me, Hving someone there to love you and for you to love them is magical and something i suppose everyone wants.
A time to remember comes third. It shows that not everything that can happen through out you life can be bad. Then a thing to treasure. Its something that is yours and noone will be able to take aways from you. It could be something that is kept inside you ie a thought or a memory, or it could be an object.
I am lucky i have all four. A place to belong = with my family in my home
A person to love= my fiance
A time to remember= the birth of my son
A thing to treasure= the fact that i am alive witha loving family that loves me back and knowing that nothing could ever hurt me unless i let it.

Answer 5

the most important is a time to remember because

a place to belong can always change
a thing to treasure can always be stolen [whether or not it's an actual thing or just a feeling]
and a person to love may not always love you back.

but yes, all the while, i do have all of them =D

Answer 6

I am lucky enough to have all four of them, but the most important is a person to love. If you have a person to love then they are what you treasure, where you belong, and they give you memories to remember!

Answer 7

Good question!
A person to love is most important. Nothing is worth anything unless there's love. All those other things wouldn't matter without a person to love because
Without someone to love,
WHY WOULD YOU BELONG?
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO REMEMBER?
WHY WOULD YOU TREASURE THAT THING?
Yep, I actually am blessed to have all four of them!

Answer 8

Okay right away I rule out Time to remember and a Thing to treasure.

A person to Love would be great, only if that person loved you back. Otherwise, it would be heartache or draining.

The winner is:
a PLACE to belong. Whether it is family,friends, community etc. We all need to feel valued and important.

Answer 9

A thing to treasure. I could treasure a place to belong, a time to remember, & a person to love. I have all but one.

Answer 10

You have one, the others fall into place.
I think to come first would be a place to belong. Then, in that place you could put a thing to treasure and make a time to remember. You could even share it with a person you love.

I have at least 3 of the 4. Depends on what you mean by "person to love". I have many people to love in the form of the family I was raised with/by, but as far as a significant other of my choosing with whom I can spend the rest of my life? Nope.

Answer 11

i would say a person to love is the most important [then a place to belong, time to remember & thing to treasuer in that order, but thats jsut my opinion]
having someone you truly love is the most important thing ever, if they love you back. having someone you love can make life seem like it has meaning when your down no matter what happens, definately more important than just an object, or memory.
just my opinion
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& no i definately do not have all of them...i have someone to love, but jsut family & friends & a time to remember but that doesn't get you very far, or seem very important. while good memories can cheer you up and be very special, it means nothing when your current world is upside down. but props to anyone who has all for of these, that would be a pretty lucky person...to -truly- have all four wow : ]