Ok. So I finally became intimate with a guy that I met about 6 months ago. I thought that we had a good connection but when were were having sex, he could not ejaculate. I don't know what to think. Was it me? Was he nervous. FYI--he did have a bit much to drink and seemed pretty drunk. Can you guys please help me understand why he couldnt ejaculate?
2007-06-11 07:03:55 · 13 answers · asked by lala20 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
This guy is 28 years old and I am 37.
We both fell asleep and I woke up and just left. I tried waking him up but he wouldnt. This happend on Saturday night and he has not called me or sent me a text, so what comes next. I just got back into the dating scene and dont know if I should text him and ask him to come over or what.
2007-06-11 07:35:46 · update #1
I'm not an adult man but I'm engaged to one, so I can answer this.
Sometimes it takes men longer to ejaculate when they are drunk. My fiance can go all night if he's been drinking, meaning he doesn't ejaculate until we've been going at it for a while. However, once he's sober and he ejaculates, it's hard for him to keep going.
It's definitely not a bad thing that he couldn't ejaculate. In fact, most guys can go longer if they don't c u m.
2007-06-11 07:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alcohol can definitely have this effect. It could also be that he ejaculated recently and wasn't ready to go again. And sure, he might have been nervous. There are also medical problems that can cause this.
I wouldn't worry too much. Try making love without the alcohol, and see how it goes. relax and enjoy the process. It's not all about the orgasm, for either of you.
2007-06-11 07:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by TG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YAI. How do you know that he couldn't ejaculate? All you know is that he didn't. Maybe he has no problem when he isn't with you. Choose your words.
He might not have because he had been drinking, or he wasn't being stimulated sufficiently (physically and/or mentally) by having sex with you, or a combination of the two.
2007-06-11 07:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's likely he's a high friction kind of guy and the positon/positions did not falicitate that kind of friction. In addition the first time he's excited you're excited and wet, and sometimes too moist to provide that friction. It would have helped if you mentioned how long the act was.
2007-06-11 07:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if he was drunk that may be the reason, next time you drink the alcohol, and give him the coke. that should make a big difference
2007-06-11 14:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the idea that he was having sex with a fellow. I might not get an erection if I was on his shoes considering that I am already drunk as a skunk.
2007-06-11 07:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if I drink to much it doesn't happen, combine that with him being anxious and that's probably it. I highly doubt it was you.
2007-06-11 07:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by I Like Stories 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just the drink and nerves don't help either.
2007-06-11 07:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by godron_wookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man + lots o' alcohol = porn-star stamina
2007-06-11 07:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
could have bneen a number of factors, but i doubt that it was you. to bad you're not in chicago
2007-06-12 14:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋