i'm 15 but i want a baby?

Question

i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend we've been going out for two years and i love him.we have sex alot and i've thought i've been pregnent a few times and when i thought i was.i was scared,but kind of happy.and i got upset when it turned out i wasn't.i want to have a baby with my boyfriend .is it wrong to feel this way?

Answer 1

Go ahead and have a baby if you want one. I would suggest you finish school first. Babies cost money. Oh wait till they get older and want all kids of **** you can't afford cuzz you did not finish school. I bet your probably gonna be living off someone. What a great role model you'll be for your kids. cuzz once you have one it's gonna turn into two, then mabey 3 or 4. Your gonna be so poor. Nothing is better than an un educated mother. I'm gonna be weak when your on here asking why did my boyfriend leave me now that I'm pregnant?He said he loved me.

Answer 2

Well your emotions are never wrong you feel what you feel but bringing a baby into the world is much more than your emotions you have to be able to support a whole new life that will need you for everything and being a parent doesn't stop when your child learns to help you out! Your child will need you forever. Also it could effect school for you and without school you can't expect to get a job you enjoy or that even gives you enough to support a baby, so at this point I would USE Condoms and remember your baby will have to suffer thought everyone of your mistakes. The worse part about having kids young is when you see your friend going to a mall or asking if you would like to go on a trip and you have to say you can't because your taking care of a baby. Also what happens if your boyfriend leaves you? You will have to explain to your child many many times why they have no father.

Good Luck

You have so much time in life to have children!
Live rich, do well in school!
anything is possible!

Answer 3

hey well i got pregnant @ 16 and know i have a beautiful 4 month old BB girl. She means the world to me. Well what can I tell you? when i was 15 which doesn't seem like a long time from seventeen i was thinking non sense that's why know I have a baby. I would tell you this I'm still with my babies father and it has worked out but its been very hard to do school and have a baby.I would recommend for you 2 just wait. Be with him a little longer. Ask him to wait see his reaction. Believe me your mind will change 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 years from know

Answer 4

At 15 it's pretty normal to start thinking about kids, and the future and everything. Your body is maturing, and as you're making your way through puberty you are probably developing maternal instincts. That's nothing bad, most women do! l would caution you to think very carefully about having a baby right now. 15 really isn't a suitable age, aside from your ability to cope with a child, please think about what you can offer a child, and what you will be lacking. You can offer a child love, and that's great, but can you offer true financial and physical security, life experience, the maturity to undertake the HUGE task of raising a child, and a safe and secure future? l seriously doubt at 15 you can offer any of that, nobody can! Why don't you concentrate on getting your teenage years over with, set your life in the right direction, and continue making plans to be a parent a few years down the track? Trust me, that would work much better for you and a child.

Answer 5

It's not wrong to feel that way but you gotta look at the whole picture. you are only 15, do you have a good stable job? Does your boyfriend? Who will support this baby? If you go on welfare, medicaid & foodstamps, will you ever get off? And again you are only 15, it would be so hard for you, you haven't even begun to live life yet and you'll be stuck with a baby and yes I mean stuck, parents do help but in the end this is your responsibility and you need to be able to take care of yourself before you can care for anyone else.

Answer 6

i am 17 years old. i lost mine at age 15. it was a mistake. you should not be having sex this young...alot? can you imagine what it will look like in ten years...eww! and a baby? no your not ready. i somtimes want one, then i babysit and when im done i am so thankful to have the simple freedoms such as suntanning without watching a baby or worrying or going to bed and sleeping in on the weekends if you cant think about the future and see that it will be hard to make anything of your life with a baby then think whats best for a baby. would you want a 15 year old child and yes you are still a child like i still am though we do not think we are. would you want your mother be 15? i wouldnt trust my mother to raise me if she was only 15. you dont know enough. yea a diaper change...WOW what about all of the copmlicated stuff. the boyfriend you think you will spend the rest of your life with, you wont. and belive me i know how you feel cuz i have a boyfriend i love and have been with for 2 1/2 years, realisticly, we wont be with them forever, its sad to think but true. wait, you have your whole life, its forever but you have the time.

Answer 7

Miss, you don't want a baby yet, let me explain. A baby is a life changing experience, and before you say yes to the better, remember this, it is a 24 hr a day 7 day a week commitment. They cry, they need changing, feeding and constant attention. You won't be ablt to go camping, the beach or anywhere else you enjoy for a long time with a baby. You won't have romantic night out, you wont get much sleep, if you work you have to pay big $$ for child care. They get sick, they can't tell you whats wrong so they cry and scream. 99% of young girls who have babies, lose the man who fathered it. 70% of young girls who have babies, never hold a good job. Your entire future is in front of you. Wait till your in you mid 20's or later to have that baby. Give yourself time to live first.

Answer 8

How old is this boyfriend? Maybe he should be in jail for having sex with a child.

Do you want to live below the poverty level for the rest of your life? We, the working class, do not want to support you and your baby and you will not be able to support yourself, not to mention a baby.

Find a goal and focus on a future so life will be better for you. Where are your parents? Since when do thirteen year olds go out and why would your parents give you so many opportunities to be alone and to have sex with this boy? There is so much more in life than sex.

Answer 9

Ok, this may be a little hard to understand, but if you can stay with me, it may be very important in your life.

The creation of life is infinitely more important than the destruction of it.

What that means is that if you kill somebody, that only causes the end of his life.

The creation of a life determines its fate throughout its entire path. Everything that you are or ever will be was determined by the moment of your conception. You body, your health, your intelligence, your upbringing, your education, your jonb prospects all started right there.

If we execute people for killing other people, what should the penalty be for people who create other people without being able to care for them and support them?

Do you want a better life for your baby? Then wait until you can provide one before you start.

Who is going to support this child? What will you do for prenatal care? How will you cope with the fact that you have just abandoned your education? Who will baby sit for this baby when you want to go out for a movie? What do you think your friend's parents are going to say to their daughters, hey, follow he good example and make us a grandchild?

Love is passion, intimacy and commitment. Your boyfriend's commitment will end the moment you stop being available to him for sex, which will probably occur about the fifth or sixth month of your pregnancy. You have no iea, at age fifteen, what intimacy is. And what you think of as passion, well, honey, that's just a beginning. And you'll be stuck at the beginning for the rest of your life if you ahve a baby now.

Answer 10

Do you have any idea how hard it is to work a job to support a baby, spend time with baby, AND go to school (not to mention pay for childcare while at school and work which is usually around $200 a week for an infant). Or even just the go to school part. Planning on adult school or teen pregnant school? Still not so easy. What about if baby gets a high fever, you spend all night in the ER and then have to go take a big test at school that you didn't have time to study for because your baby needed to be fed, held, changed, rocked, bathed, etc... then gets sick and you spend all night in ER with her/him therefore not even getting any sleep.

In other words, its not a good idea to have a baby at 15. its alot of hard work, and even harder when trying to balance school, work, baby, and friends (which chances are you won't have time for if they even stick around at all) and then the fact that most, not all but most, guys do not want to be dads at that age, even if they say they do.