I'm feeling very stressed and emotional about it , and I can't see why ... we've been together for 5 years , and we are very happy . . I just feel like things might change between us . . We already live together , so it's not a fear of moving in with him . . I don't know . Could be because I'm pregnant I'm feeling this way . . But did anyone feel like this before they got married ?
2007-06-11 05:07:53 · 11 answers · asked by Chante Alexis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its just the pre-wedding jitters.. I got married last month.. and I remember laying in bed the night i got married thinking.. what the hell did i just do! LOL.. now a month later Im happy as sin.. itll just be a quick reality check into to the whole TOTAL COMMITMENT- You'll be ok dont stress yourself out if you are pregnant.. Good Luck!
2007-06-11 05:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel this way more because ur pregnant and even though u live together already it doens't guarantee he won't leave save as beeing married and that's all us women's fears. I'm 5 months preg. too and wil be moving in with my bf in August and getting married in Sept and i'm scared to death that something may go wrong and fear that he could leave me. I've told him various times that i'm scared of him leaving me but he says that it's nonsense and that he loves me so much he doens't know how he lived his life without me before. So- talk to him about your fears and hopefully his feedback will help you feel better. I'm sure he's not as nervous as you are if aanything he might be nervous about having a baby but not about getting married because you already live together so it shoudl be easier if anything for medical insurance purposes, combining incomes etc. Good luck and take everything day by day and be happy. Congrats on the baby to come and be positive that everything will work out the way it should.
2007-06-11 05:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had the same feeling when she was about to get married and they had been together for 6 years and lived together for 3 of them. You are just nervous take time to do something fun with him and agree to not talk about the wedding... Congrats and Good Luck
2007-06-11 05:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by km2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant may make you feel that way, This will pass. Focus on the wedding, and have a good time and a great life. Congratulaions and best wishes.
2007-06-11 05:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are just very emotional about the big day, just go with the flow and you will be ok have a drink and stay calm. The best to you and remember to enjoy the day!!!!
2007-06-11 05:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sounds like marriage jitters. Calm down. Everything is fine. Best wishes for many years of happiness!
2007-06-11 05:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts then you seriously need to rethink your decision.Marraige is a lifelong commitment.It is normal to be nervous about if the wedding will go right but it is another thing if you have doubts..
2007-06-11 05:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure about marrying him, then DONT! Your inner voice is the voice of reason. Make sure it is forever, because a divorce with kids is HELL!
2007-06-11 05:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cold feet it is normal & prenancy bring out all kinds of emotions & feelings.
2007-06-11 05:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by melody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't but anyways congradulation.
2007-06-11 05:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by leftydolphin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋