2007-06-11 04:21:25 · 53 answers · asked by lisamarie7901 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes he does want to get back together, and yes i had very good reason he was drunk and has had drug problems and he was in my face sreaming at me!
2007-06-11 04:27:56 · update #1
and by the way Im not the one wanting him back ..he is calling and wanting to come back
2007-06-11 04:38:02 · update #2
my ex boyfriend got me sent to jail because i poured water on him, we got back together. but that changed everything about the way i felt about him. good luck, if you still want to be with him (and that is different to actually loving him) then do you.
2007-06-11 04:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm the one that hit him? He put me in jail? Why in the world would he want an abusive wife back?
He was drunk and has drug problems? Wouldn't the cops have seen that when they were called out to the domestic dispute? If you cant handle being with him with out being violent towards him and vise verse then you two are better off apart. This does not sound like a healthy relationship and you should both go to counseling. You sound like you need it.
2007-06-11 04:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question is should the spouse take YOU back. Slapping someone is felony battery and never is acceptable in a relationship. If you slap someone, you are the wrong and guilty party. You would do it again probably and therefore are a poor risk for me to have in a relationship. Go to anger management classes and graduate from them. Then maybe I would take YOU back.
2007-06-11 04:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But not because of the jail time it cost. If either partner has resorted to physical means the relationship has become toxic and is likely to get worse without professional guidance. Just as slap can lead to just a stab-just a shot.
2007-06-11 04:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the slapping thing got me,if I actually got angry enough to slap him I would need some time out to prevent well to prevent O_O All the same I would say no , try not to slap its considered assault. I would suggest you both get counseling should you wish to try and work it out. No one knows better than you if you have a relationship still,
take care all the best.
2007-06-11 04:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
End of story deal breaker. Get some therapy and find out why you reacted the way you did and learn other ways to cope with whatever stress your spouse put you in the first place to make you react the way you did.
Physical violence is a definite deal breaker.
2007-06-11 04:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation...if you would do it constantly and that time he got fed up and put you in jail, I would seek help before persuing any further relationships becuase that is not healthy....If the hitting is not a constant happening, I would take him back....he obviously wants you if he is willing to take you back.....Maybe he truly is sorry for putting you in jail....that is what I would do.....Good luck!
2007-06-11 04:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by bmcurrent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding right! This is your spouse and you slapped him and he put you in jail! If you want him back you both need to seek counseling
2007-06-11 04:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one he has some issues if he puts you in jail for just slapping him or either the woman has done other things crazy in the past for him to do that. But, I would say no to taking him back if you haven't done anything in the past that was super crazy.
2007-06-11 04:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hahahahaha
2007-06-11 04:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by RevPeter3rd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋