I want to know if you as a married person has went through this. Can one person who is married like another person that is seeing someone or is married too. Then have that other person actually like you back. With nothing being said between the two people to ever know for sure. Its just really a closed book. Nothing being done or said at all But have those looks in the eyes that maybe the two may have feelings for each other??
2007-06-11 04:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im sorry if I mislead some of you on this. I wasnt asking for my own gain on this. It has nothing to do with me personaly. Its something that someone said to me that they think of someone else between the girl that they mentioned and my husband.
2007-06-11 04:27:35 · update #1
Sure that does and can happen. We are after all humans. We can alway be flirty and feel physically attracted, but as long as we leave it to that and keep your distance, there is no harm done.
2007-06-11 04:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but there is a hug problem with that though because when that start then it open the door for everything else, once the eyes meet and there is that look to one another then that's when it makes both party's think about what's going on and figure out why they have those feelings, so they start talking privately to one another and then they find out that are attracted to each other. But then it doesn't stop their because they have spent all this time sharing feelings for one another that they want to start spending time together weather it's in a group setting or in a private setting and that's when even more feeling start to develop between the two. But know that if someone is just is saying that there just giving eyes and that's it, I wouldn't believe them because the fact is, that there giving eye's to someone other than their spouse because their interested in something more with that person.
2007-06-11 04:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by *Cat* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true, yes he may be starting something that could be ugly. My husband acted that way around someone recently and I believe it turned into an affair until I caught them talking badly on tape. Just watch and do not be blinded by "he is not that type of man" we are all human and do things at the time we seem to regret later, when it is too late and everything is GONE and you cannot get it back.
Good Luck and EYES WIDE OPEN !
2007-06-11 04:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by peaches8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a leap to call this a prelude to divorce. If you are alive and sensitive, it is entirely possible to develop feelings towards a coworker or friend. It doesn't make you a bad person, and you certainly shouldn't internalize some of the harsher judgements within this thread.
That being said, anyone in such a situation should take precautions. Never conveniently place yourself in a situation where you may compromise your marriage. If you find yourself doing so, you may need to examine all of yourself and your relationships.
2007-06-11 04:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're married you shouldnt even be thinking about another person or looking at another person in such a way! A crush will eventually turn into an affair! Thats why I would never get married because of these situations! People change, feelings change and life changes everyday!
2007-06-11 04:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not married [sorry] but i know that this is not right. YOu are MARRIED! You promised love with your husband/Wife. Plus u may not even no if that otha one lieks you back. Stay with your husband and still be friends with the other person. Hope that Helps. Good Luck =)
2007-06-11 04:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by iloveyou-♥- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story is nearly identical to mine. Yes.
Having been in a sexless marriage for many years, I had buried my feelings inside. I am not a cheater.
Then I met HIM. It was immediate attraction, enormous chemistry, from across the room, eyes only for each other. Mild flirtations followed...but that's where it stopped. Nothing was ever said, nothing ever planned. But the feelings became stronger and I fell in love. He awoke all my hidden desires.
Then he decided to put the distance between us and left town to try and make his marriage work. I admire him for his loyalty to his wife, but I miss him, I am heartbroken, and I am empty.
I do understand, and I feel for you.
2007-06-11 04:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That can happen but does your husband deserve that?
The problem with that is we females get emotionally attached to someone very quickly. This will have an effect on your marriage and the feeling you have for your husband in the long run, IF YOU CONTINUO DOING THAT!
*How will it affect your children?
2007-06-11 04:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to harmlessly flirt with other people and as long as you and the person know this is just that a flirtation I don't see the problem.
When you say "like and having feelings for" I think that's a whole different problem
2007-06-11 04:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're playing with fire here. Nothing good can come of this. Why jeopardize everything over a childish fantasy? Get some other interests and forget about this nonsense.
2007-06-11 04:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by hottiecj *~♥~*~♥~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋