You felt as though the two of you were alone no matter how crowded the room? If so are you still together? If not why?
2007-06-11 04:05:14 · 17 answers · asked by loosin it liz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES! I did! When I first met my husband it was at a crowded party that I really didn't even want to attend. I believe my only purpose for going there was for me to find my husband there that night. I saw him sitting there, with a guy (that I now know as his best friend Bob) and as I walked by to leave I put my arm on his shoulder and said hello and goodbye. I don't know what made me do it, I hadn't planned on doing it! He says when I touched him he felt a jolt of electricity go through him. He grabbed my hand, we talked for a brief moment and he asked for my phone number. A few days later he called, a few days after that we went on our first date where we fell in love! We went on four dates in one week and 2 weeks later we told each other we were in love and were talking marriage! My friends thought I was nuts! Anyway, 3 months later we got engaged, 5 months after that we got married. We've been married a little over 1 month and yes, we are very very happy and still together! If we go out it's as if no one else is there, we just sit there, talking and holding hands. We still hold hands, even at home, alone together. We'll lay in bed, watching a movie or the news even, and we'll hold hands. We are so in love and we knew it from the first day we met.
2007-06-11 04:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I did.We have been married ten years now.Speaking of electricity,there are days we both wish we could electrocute each other.And days we are extremely happy.Marriage is a continuing relationship,just like dating.You have to continue to work on it.Always be kind,never swear at each other,NEVER hit each other and the biggest thing is respect.Never ever talk about your spouse in a negative way to anyone.They will be more than happy to bash your relationship.Talk through your fights,keep them between you and compromise,compromise,compromise.Some days you will need to give 110% and he will give 10% and some days you will only give 10% and he will give 110%.Your feelings will change in different directions,the electricity will turn into passion and devotion,you will have good and bad times,just remember that marriage is a lifetime commitment.And just like a flower bed you have to nurture it and work to stay connected.Nothing comes with a guarantee,and nothing is worth having if you don;t have to work for it.The only thing that would make me walk away is emotional or physical abuse.I deserve better and never have to take that.Never.Good luck to you.
2007-06-18 18:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by little loved one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't but I will like to answer this question. I was on a online dating site called Black Planet. I received many answers from gentlemen who were looking for someone special. To keep myself from going crazy I picked three out of the many responses I had. I looked at their pictures. One of the pictures seemed to give me warmth unto my hand. I thought I was just imagining it. I took one of the three and held it in my left hand and took his picture and held it in my right hand. I felt the warmth in my right hand. I switched hands to see if I would receive the same affect, I did. I didn't call him right away until I eliminated the other two by contacting them to see what they were all about which was nothing.
What I am trying to tell you I believe that you don't have to physically tough a person to get that electricity. I beleive it can sometimes travel through a picture, a word, a smile, a letter. It doesn't neccessarily mean that person is your soul mate but prove you can be "toned" in on a person you never met.
2007-06-18 16:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Moe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!! I met my husband at work. He approached me and told me that we were going to be together forever, and have two sons! I looked at him like he was crazy, but we are together, have been for 11 years, and 9 of those years have been married. We have two sons, and are very happy. He wasn't the first to make me feel that way, but the first that ever made me really see myself, and have learned a lot from him!!
2007-06-18 21:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I probably should have paid him more attention. Anyway, I ended up marrying the wrong guy and divorced him later. Then again, no regrets though. It has made me into a wiser person.
2007-06-18 09:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by salsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I knew with our first date that we loved each other. I wouldn't say that there was a spark necesarily but there was something that drew me to him. We have been married for over two years and we've had our ups and downs but I couldn't even imagine my life without him in it.
2007-06-16 01:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by cogal2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love with that special person over 20 years ago and i still feel electricity
2007-06-17 13:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by october_4_2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was going to marry my husband the first time I kissed him.....
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2007-06-18 07:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Siberian_Husky Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I didn't marry that first person. He was exciting, but he was also selfish and ego-centric. I waited and married a man whom I felt excited to be with, who treated me wonderfully, and who still loves me today.
2007-06-11 11:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ;-) And we've been married 4+ years and together for 10. ;-)
2007-06-11 11:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋