help me out
2007-06-11 04:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it illegal?
No, it is not illegal and therefore not wrong.
If it is not wrong then it is not bad.
Some people may not like it, but not liking something does not make it wrong or bad.
I don't like peanut butter.
Is peanut butter wrong or bad?
Nope.
Liking something is only an opinion.
Changing your opinion to match the larger group is sign of a weak willed individual.
The group can be wrong. For example the Nazi Party in Germany during WWII were wrong.
"All that is need for evil to win is for good men to do nothing."
Giving up your decision to choose for yourself is the same as doing nothing.
Everyone needs to fight for what they believe in and it can be as silly the freedom to watch people having sex. Once the curtain falls on our freedom it is much harder to get those freedoms back. Today its porn, tomorrow swearing, then questionable ideas, then different religions, different ethnic groups, then any one different, then any one who thinking, anyone who reads, anyone who questions ....
Porn may not be clearly good, but to get rid of it leads us down a path that is clearly not good.
2007-06-11 05:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a bad thing. It would be nice if it was a shared experience between a couple, so no one feels left out, but sometimes ppl need their alone time, or due to circumstance, that's all they have, and porn helps fill the void. To me, it only gets perverted when u'd rather look at porn when u have someone who could/would satisfy you, or if u want ur mate to act just like the girl in the movie and do exactly what she did with her body to the guy in the movie. As for prevention, that's something a couple should discuss. The one who doesn't like it needs to know why their significant other does; then they need to compromise. Usually it's the guy watching porn and the girl who's against it. I believe that as soon as one person in a coupling says no to something, that's when the other person starts sneaking around. Rather than doing that, it's better to reach compromises and have understanding...it would make for a smoother relationship.
2007-06-11 11:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Porno can be good or bad. It's a matter of how it affects a person. For some, it's just entertainment and a means of arousal. For others, it can consume them, and it interferes with their sex life and home responsibilities.
2007-06-11 11:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After satisfying your curiosity, stop watching porno because it is addictive and doesn't do much for your character. your should be spending time doing something more beneficial to yourself, your family and society.
2007-06-11 12:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with watching porn. Just dont let it get too outta hand cause then you'll be alone for the rest of your life. You should know what I mean.
2007-06-11 11:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by /N/I/C/K/ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with watching porn and jerking off! if your asking how to prevent ones masturbation, well your asking the wrong fella dude! i love a good hard pull guilt is only secondary
2007-06-11 11:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad, it's a distortion of the perfectly wonderful gift of sex that god gave us. I can only tell you to pray. Read the 'everyman's battle' on the subject.
2007-06-11 12:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching porn is fine as long as its not hurting anyone, but if its affecting your everyday life then you're going to need help. i'm female and my man watches porn from time to time and its not hurting are affecting me or him or our everyday lives, so its good. Cheers x
2007-06-11 11:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u will get a variety of answers on this one depending on each person's level of confidence and how much they feel threatened in their relationship.
My opinion...not bad...this actually has a positive effect on our relationship...but both of us are extremely confident in the relationship itself and therefore, this does not pose a threat.
2007-06-11 11:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not a very bad habbit but why waste your time on it.
2007-06-12 04:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Prashant S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋