to put 100% into your marriage and make it work if it is not working for you...? DO you still love your spouse?
2007-06-11 04:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thhis question is meant to see how other married couples feel and for the most part the answers are great.. some people oly know how to be degrading about valid questions.. perhaps they are just a miserable person
2007-06-11 05:12:48 · update #1
My marriage completes me and I am still happy after 38 years.
2007-06-11 04:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once upon a time marriage was normal. We were brought up to go to school, study hard, get a good job, fall in love, get married, buy a house, and then start a family. Today people drop out of school or never even go, hook up, have sex, get pregnant, try to make the relationship work even though they're not in love, sue for child support, and then complain that they will NEVER get married because marriage is overrated and outdated! Go figure.
FYI: My wife and I dated for 2 years, got engaged, got married, bought a house, enjoyed being married and traveled and partied for 5 years, then decided to try and start a family. Six months later we got pregnant, nine months later my wife gave birth to twin baby girls, and although things have changed dramatically (no more partying during the week or drinking with friends & coworkers) we couldn't be happier now that we've gone from a family of 2 to a family of 4. And it all started by saying "I do"!
2007-06-11 04:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We've been married happily for almost 18 years. Marriage didn't 'complete' me - I was mature and together, had a great career and was 28. However, I was able to bring my best self to my husband, as he did to me - and we each give MORE than 100 per cent. Totally love one another, the love has grown and deepened over the years, even through really hard times. There's still lots of fun and laughter, and the lust has not diminished!
2007-06-11 05:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a whole complete person before I married but there is something about being married to my husband that makes my life fall more fulfilling than it ever was single...i will put 100% into my marriage until I breath my last...til death do us part and there is no other man on this earth that can ever compare to my husband and I love him with all of who I am....
2007-06-11 04:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by juda75 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For me, marriage has been great. I am only 23 years old and I have been married for 3 years, but I have been w/my husband for a total of 8 years and many more to come. We also have a 5 year old daughter. Marriage is definitely not easy (especially since both my husband and I are very young), but it takes both partners to make it work. I have my ups and downs w/my husband, but I am always willing to make it work. We always say whats on our minds. We love each other very much.
2007-06-11 04:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe my husband and our marriage has completed my life and if there was a point in my life where I felt like it was not working for me I would put 100% into trying to save the marriage in any way possible.
2007-06-11 04:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jellybean had her little bean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you need to be whole and complete as an individual before a marriage can work. Otherwise, you're constantly looking outside of yourself for validation. Once you're complete, then you can find someone who takes that completeness to a whole new level you didn't even know was possible.
2007-06-13 12:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a complete person before you enter into marriage if not you will be disappointed.
Wife and I put in 1000% to make our marriage work and I love her more today than when we were first married.
2007-06-11 04:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Marriage has completed my life. We have been married for over a year, and are expecting our first child in September. I love my husband with all my heart and would not change anything about our lives together.
2007-06-11 04:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kris H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
marriage is great if you really love the person and got married for the right reasons. both people have to put in 100% for it to work, and love should be why you got married.
2007-06-11 04:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by danielle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋