I am a 19 year old boy and my 19 year old sister is having sexual affair with 15 yo boy. Parents don't know, but she told me and she told me what i think and i said it is ok if you are ok with it, but should i say something? is it love, really? Or should i say nothing. They both like each other.
2007-06-11 03:01:48 · 33 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your sister is committing Statutory Rape, and by keeping quiet you are an accessory.
But you have to make your own decision
2007-06-11 03:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Weatherman 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if they both like each other if he's not old enough to consent they shouldn't be having a sexual affair.Plain and simple.Maybe you should say something to her.Something like," I 'm not saying this to be in your business, but you really need to think about what you're doing. I'm only saying this because I care about you." If you think that it's not getting out of hand then the decision is up to you.You don't have to say anything, because it's not your life. As long as she's happy, you should be to, though.
2007-06-11 03:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's illegal. If it comes out she can be labled a sex offender for the rest of her life! UGH! & that 15 year old boy doesn't know what he is doing. Not good. I was the 15 yr old with the 19 yr old. I ended up hurt. I look back and realize it was abuse. I knew nothing and i tursted him. He used me. She needs to be careful. This little boy can get hurt or decided to press charges if they ever break up. This is not a good situation. If it is love it needs to wait until he is legal
2007-06-11 03:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ang3l-Uh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what state you are in so I can't quote the law specifically, but I think she can only be a couple years older than him otherwise it is considered statutory rape. I would advise her to discontinue the relationship becase you don't want her to be in a situation going to jail for something she felt was "innocent". If it's something she feels they have to hide that says a great deal as well.
2007-06-11 03:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by talking to your sister. Tell her that, because of the ages, she is commiting Statutory Rape and could be put in jail.
Whether or not this is love does not matter...its illegal. If she continues, then you should involve your parents, and then let them deal with it.
But, whatever you do, do NOT just let it be. What she is doing IS ILLEGAL, and punishable by several years in prison.
If it is love, it will be willing to wait. Otherwise, she needs to find herself a new toy.
Good luck!
2007-06-13 13:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry your sister with a suitable match according to her age and send her far away from that place because as an elder we know the negative aspect of this kind of affair so we have to think from mind ignoring what our hearts says
Also, brain washing is needed by applying the formula - out of sight is out of mind with time. if she has some plans in career her mind can be diverted towards it by changing the surroundings. One advice that lot of patience is required as it may take a long time.
2007-06-11 04:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In some countries it is illegal to have any sexual relationship before the age of 16, you need to talk to her seriously about this situation. 15 is a very impressionable age and in essence is he is a child. So it should not be happening. Lust is different from love and so is need. She also needs to understand it's illegal too at 15. Talk to her and be truthful ..
2007-06-11 03:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by artistic_butterfly88 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should give her a choice. Tell that what she is doing can cause harm to both her and the young man she is seeing. Tell her that either she can end the relationship and tell your parents or you will be forced, by her actions, to do so. Not because you are being mean or spiteful but because you love her and don't want to see her jeopordize her future.
2007-06-11 03:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by michael w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like something from a Jilly Cooper novel..well she is 19 to be fair, but why does she want to go with someone so young?? Does she just like sex in the hay or something?
2007-06-11 03:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Moral Kiosk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would try to talk my sister out of this right away. It isn't right, and she could get in serious trouble. If she ignored me, I would send an anonymous letter to the parents. This isn't right, and they have a right to know. Sorry, but your sister is not being very bright.
2007-06-11 03:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋