Im on the other end of the scale to sglmom , I am married to my childhood sweetheart and just celebrated our thirtieth anniversary. We met when she was twelve and I was 17, we married when she was 17. We have never been happier. I guess it just goes to show that commitment happens in all degrees and if you cant commit to someone who loves you you should save that person the eventual pain of having to deal with your departure at a later date. People should find someone they are extremely comfortable with and then commit, but in so saying that sort of find is very rare. I am sorry to hear of slgmom having to live that way and would pray for her to receive a better deal. But life selects our path and we can rarely stray from it. Commitment is as important as love itself,,right there with trust,,,without any of these nobody could survive a pemanant relationship.
2007-06-11 00:49:22
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answered by flipknuckle 2
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ENDURED a short disaster of a marriage to an abusive, violent, sociopathic ex .... and even now, a decade and half AFTER the divorce was finalized ...
This ex BURGLARIZED my HOME in August 2006 (once again) ... this time with the willing help of an adult child.
I've endured Identity Theft, theft of my property, abuse, threats, dealing with filing many police reports, damage to my property, abuse of the children (for which all of this he does have convictions), and yes, even WITH Protective Orders ... well ... one is NEVER free ... and has to deal with these stalking, abusive, erratic and mentally unstable ex'es for the rest of your life ...
2007-06-11 07:36:31
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answered by sglmom 7
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I am scared to commit because I might get hurt if I get dumped
2007-06-11 07:20:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I have a commitment problem... I want to be with you forever and be married now... But i gotta wait. It's not easy (-;
2007-06-11 16:34:45
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answered by Magic Mouse 6
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i am scared too, but i think it is still too early for me to commit
:)
2007-06-11 07:22:08
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answered by lanithka 4
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Very frightened. I want to have fun first.
2007-06-11 07:20:57
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answered by Johnny Rocker 89 7
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*hides face* Me
2007-06-11 07:20:33
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answered by SociallyAwkwardPenguin 5
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ME PICK ME OVER HERE
2007-06-11 07:21:13
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answered by Sean 1
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