2007-06-10 23:48:30 · 24 answers · asked by angel 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-06-10 23:49:14 · update #1
Marrying my first husband. He neglected to tell me he was an arsonist.
2007-06-11 01:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That HORRIBLE Mistake of getting married .. that short disaster of a marriage to a violent, abusive, greedy, sociopathic ex was just that -- a HORROR!
It is now a decade and half since the DIVORCE was finalized, and in August 2006 -- this ex DID BURGLARIZE my home once again ... and this time, he had the willing help of an Adult Child.
I've gone through this ex stealing my identity (multiple times, arrested, convicted), stealing my income/bank balances, stalking me, burglarizing my home/auto/office, damaging my home/auto/office, abusing me/children (and yes, he was convicted of this), thefts of property (convicted), and his constant demands for MORE Even after the FINAL Divorce Decree was paid -- To have to constantly deal with the Sociopathic ex has made my life a living hell ... because I can't predict when he will 'show up' once again to torment me in some way .. all because he will NOT go to treatment, follow the medical orders, and violates the Protective Orders all the time. I am so SICK And TIRED ... but I can't let my vigilance down ... because ..
The ONLY Reason I am here today to type things on my computer was because I was out and about paying MY Bills (like all responsible adults do from their own incomes), and when I returned to my home, I FELT something was WRONG ... called the POLICE, found my home burglarized (he left DIRECT Evidence he was RETURNING to continue burglarizing my HOME), and the officer was in my driveway viewing the scene in the home when the ex drove by for ANOTHER pickup bed load from my home.
Why does he do this -- somehow, someway -- he 'feels' that I ... "OWE him a living ..." (and yes, when he is arrested -- this is what he always says -- that, and never taking responsibility for his crimes or actions ...) and I'll have to live the rest of my life VIGILENT ... aware of safety needs, and to constantly have to CHECK my home, my car, and anything around me to ensure my safety at all times.
For my own personal opinion, it should be MANDATORY That the COMPLETE health (including Mental Health) tracks or be able to be fully aware of the problems with anyone that one would have with a soon-to-be marital partner is made available -- because .. with knowledge, one is better prepared to have to SHOULDER the BURDEN of having to deal with someone else's mental or other illnesses ... and it is DEFINITELY A BURDEN That is always going to be there ... (Especially when the other person will NEVER comply with treatment needs (or acknowledge their treatment needs), hides a problematic background, and then you have to deal with it for the REST of your life).
2007-06-11 07:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got mistaken when i thought that someone deserved to be loved by me... so i wish i could take it back but i can't , anyway it's great to make mistakes and learn from them that's how u get experience!
2007-06-11 08:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever meeting my first ex husband--a$$hole raped me and made me think I really wanted it to happen, that it was okay. I used to be a firm Catholic and felt that sex before marriage meant you had to marry that person (that's what we were taught in doctrine class), so I went through with it and that p.o.s. marriage lasted 4 months--what a waste of time, money and mental anguish! Now of course, I have intimacy issues and definitely dropped the Catholic faith--they wanted over a thousand dollars to annul the marriage!!!
2007-06-11 07:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would have to be when I was 15 and I thought I could do anything I want and I stayed out all night while my mom waited for me.
When I got home she was crying and I thought she was totally over reacting but now that I am older I see what not knowing what happened to me did to her.
I wish that I never put her through that.
2007-06-11 06:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey W 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having children before I went to college.
2007-06-11 06:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm just 21 and I don't want to take back anything right away as I'm sure I would have more of them added to my list later ;)
2007-06-11 07:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by rhea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My attachment to this world. Because all attachments are the material bondages.
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And further my adamant belief that there could be happiness in this world and I should strive to get it!
2007-06-11 07:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Vijay D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One?
2007-06-11 06:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by rockman 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not want to deviate from the path choosen in life , in spite of bad for the life
2007-06-11 07:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋