Have you ever messed up a perfect opportunity to be with someone you loved?

Question

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Answer 1

Yes.

I was afraid of things I was feeling, so I acted like an idiot and sabotaged the relationship. So it ended in a self-fulfilling prophecy. I haven't dated since. She married a few years ago and invited me to the wedding. I called and wished them well, but I stayed home.

Answer 2

when you are 17,every problem is a big major problem and everyday you feel like dying... = )
i was 17 when i had my first love experience.being 17 ,you definitely did not know that it was love...we became the best of friends for the next 10 years.we both knew that we love each other but for some unknown reason.we never got to say it out loud.it is always with how we look at each other ,a simple touch of the hand and the understanding that we share.but never the words.he recently got married.it was his mom's choice and final wish.she passed away late last year from breast cancer.we had only smiles for the ppl around us but only god knows whats deep within our hearts.i pray for his happiness.i have to.by seeing him happy...it makes me happy.but is he truly happy?i do not have the courage to hear the answer...i was given my chance.i did not do anything with it.now life has to go on...

Answer 3

Yes, as a matter of fact I have just recently missed out on an opportunity to see a cousin who is near and dear to me. She has been in the hospital for several months. Liver transplant and now she needs a kidney. I recently went to Washington DC (Rolling Thunder) and wanted to hook up with her in the worse way. Once out of the hospital her boyfriend took her out of town to be with her. She did come back so she could see me but things just didn't work out and I MISSED the opportunity to see her. Since we live bout 540 miles apart the chances of me seeing her again are very slim. And since she needs a new kidney, she may not make it. Hence I may not get to see her again. (alive anyway) It SUCKS!

Answer 4

It's ok to let go, I think fate plays a bigger hand than we realize in these matters, so if we mess up, it's like maybe in the end that's what was supposed to happen.

Answer 5

I lied to him on the phone about who I was because I didn't think he'd talk to me if he knew who I really was as I wasn't very popular at the time in high school and he was. Turns out, he liked me, too. He was so upset when he found out the truth that he didn't speak to me for two years. (I was so young and so stupid.) Then we became friends and eventually dated for another two years and broke-up because he cheated.

Answer 6

Yes i have. lol, twice! atleast with two different girls. The first i think i went too fast and attempted to kiss her. She seemed so upset about it and changed her view about me. The other i just cant point where i went wrong! But im glad that im not meaning to find out, but gonna find another way to her heart.

Answer 7

I was mad and told him to go take some pills and kill himself, after he told me to go into the street and play in traffic..we had something good but I was young and immature and didn't know how to handle a situation..I miss him but hey what can ya do..it's over

Answer 8

No after a few break ups and life issues we are still together after eight years and cant stay apart. If it was truly meant to be it will be.

Answer 9

Yes, it was a long time ago and still too painful to recall.

Answer 10

i was called 4 an interview in another better paying company but i stood it up coz my babe works in d same company im working 4.... i didnt wana leave him