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i was looking at my hubbys responses on myspace... (were a young couple) and his ex from when they were younger is sooo in love with him. she knows he married. but i dont know why and where she jus decides to write a blog about me, stating that she doesnt know why my man ran after her and stuff and im sick of it... i asked him and he denies ever going online to talk to her... for the myspace people when it says last log in does that mean they really logged in on the date that it states?? like it will say last loggin date 06/11/07.. theres no way it can log you on by itself can it?? well tell me what yall think? well im also gonna call the divorce attorney in the morning.. im so damn tired of this crap...

2007-06-10 19:10:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Come on Sunshine are you really going to walk away from a really great marriage for some blog bitcfh? Come on why let her get the upper hand. Don't be such a hot head the best thing is to catch him in the act if it is like that anyway. I would advice you to monitor things and him for a few weeks and if there is more unexplained blogs appearing then I would move on. Don't break your marriage up for a home wrecker.
My husband says that it could happen and well I confirmed this with his sister and she says the same as my cousin that this is a possibility where you can send things to someone called a blog so don't be so quick to judge. Play her back at her own game but raise the stakes a bit higher have an unexpected meeting with her and your husband and surprise her about how smart you are. Put that blogbiItch in her place!

2007-06-10 20:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

girl.. How long have u been married...? U really don't know the meaning of marriage do you..? marriage is all about Loyalty,Honesty,Trust,Communication,Compromise,Respect, Support,Love.. NO SECRETS!! U really need to grow up... grow a backbone... How can divorce be the solution to this matter...! To Divorce u need to earn it to get out of a marriage & Girl u haven't earned nothing. God, The man still be friends & in touch with his Ex... But he married You he waited for you at the end of the aisle exchanging "I DO" Now that has to count for something mean something don't you think...?. As for the loggin on that's accruate u need the passwrd to log on. Plus Block her off whats so hard about that! ur being Immature & turnin the situation more into somethin it needn't be. Sit ya hubby down express ya concern how u feel about this.. If he loves u Truly.. he'll listen & take on board what ur sayin & feelin & he'd be more respectful, supportive & end all ties with his Ex if, thats what u want he will..!. Divorce should ONLY be the last resort NOT the 1st as u have done SO hold that thought & work at ya marriage instead of giving up ending it totally like a coward..!. Give ya newly marriage a go second chance if thats so if u have kids betta think twice b4 divorcing for it'll be the kids as the victim NOT you or ya Husband..! You Hear ME..!!! Counselling is what u both truely need..!
From Mim.

2007-06-10 19:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't call the lawyer just yet. He's made a mistake for sure, but everyone makes mistakes. It sounds like the two of you need counselling to learn how to talk to each other better. Remember, it takes two people to make a marriage work and it takes two people to make a marriage fail. There must have been some reason why he was talking to his ex again. Ask him why, with an open heart and mind. That means you have to be willing to hear what you did to make his ex look tempting again. This is where counselling can come in handy, in case the two of you need a "referee". On the other hand, if you've made up your mind to throw in the towel, then you've made up your mind. I just wanted to point out that you have options, if you want to save your marriage.

2007-06-10 19:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

I think the log in date is accurate, yes. Don't let anything she says be the reason for your marital troubles, though. Go by what he says. And I think you should hold off on the divorce attorney - if you're a young couple, then you haven't been married long. Give it a chance. Try some counseling. I know it isn't pleasant, but it can really help.

2007-06-10 19:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 2 0

The day it says he last logged in was the day he last logged in so dint let him lie to you. He should stop all contact with her. Talk to him and give him an ultimatum if it doesn't work then kick him to the curve like you said you both are young you can get a better man and let him go back to his dumb ex.

2007-06-10 19:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 0 0

Marriage is a institution where you have trust and always be honest with your partner--even if the truth hurts. You don't lie to your partner. In your case, you have evidence that he's been of the my space account and he still denies it--shame on him. No. It doesn't log on by itself. If he lied about this you dont know what other stuff he's been lying to you about. I feel that if the trust is gone in a relationship, its best to get out of the situation. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. It seems like this is not the first time you catch him in a lie. I believe happiness is paramount in a relationship--so divorce or if not a mediator might be cheaper--just get out of it. Best of luck with your situation.

2007-06-10 19:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rafa 3 · 1 0

Give him a chance before you call the attorney. Block her and give him the ultimatum that he has to stop talking to her or you will leave him alone with Pamela Handerson.

2007-06-10 19:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its the date he logged in...But you have made your choice...I just finished filling out all the papers for my divorce, get a Lawyer this crude is confusing...

2007-06-10 20:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0 0

The last log-in date is correct.
You need to be a P.I.
Get a keylogger.

2007-06-10 19:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Get yourself a key logger, or a keyghost, or a webwatcher. You already know you are right, and he is lying, cause he doesn't want you to find out what a rat he is.

2007-06-10 20:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0 0

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