My friend Marie and I got drunk together (we're both 18) and she started kissing and making out with me...I kinda liked it and I think i should tell my boyfriend of 4 years........whats going on???
2007-06-10 18:16:28 · 35 answers · asked by Sylvia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You probably liked it because it was a new, interesting, and and nice feeling. Do you have any feelings for Marie other than the good feelings left over from your kiss? Have you ever liked other girls? If not, you probably shouldn't worry. You were both drunk and not thinking correctly. If you do have other feelings for Marie, then definitely talk to your boyfriend and explain the situation. You might be bisexual. If you still have feelings for your boyfriend, however, do not break the relationship off simply because you enjoyed a drunken kiss with your friend.
2007-06-10 18:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bandou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, you were drunk, you were experimenting. It's something that a lot of people do. Everyone in the world is basically bisexual, and can go either way at times. But, what you were doing doesn't mean you are a lesbian, it means you were fooling around and trying something on for size. Don't tell your boyfriend at this time. You didn't do anything more than kiss. You don't really know yet if that is the way you really feel. You need more experience, either with your friend or another woman before you make a decision. Don't tell your boyfriend because he will freak out and this may be a passing fancy and you may really love your boyfriend and do you really want to lose him over what may be nothing.
2007-06-10 18:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 23:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by siqueiros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are a Bisexual.
If I was you, I won't say anything to your boyfriend yet.
First, you just start making out with another
woman, and you are uncertain where things stand.
And it doesn't help that you were drunk.
So, wait to see how your relationship (sexual) with
Marie works out.
Then ask your boyfriend how does he feel about
2 females being together sexually.
Then, you would know how to approach him
about your relationship with Marie, or any other
girl that you like.
But, if he says he doesn't like Bisexual women.
Then, it is up to you to say something or nothing at all.
Good Luck.
2007-06-11 02:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt your bi or gay. I don´t know, you probably did it to experiment... and you liked it cuz well, kissing is usually a pleasurable experience. It´s in style now to do that... you´re not the first girl who´s kissed another girl. The alcohol probably helped too... I don´t think you just become gay if you kiss somebody of your same sex. If you want to tell your boyfriend, go ahead... but be prepared for his reaction. I don´t know him, so I cant tell how he´d react, but if he´s conservative, he´s probably not going to like it at all and might get mad. Or he might not care... and you can clear your conscience. You know him better than anyone else here.
2007-06-10 18:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like both your friend and your boyfriend then you may be bisexual.
However you sound more like you where just experimenting?
Just be what you feel most comfortable being. In the end, that's all that works.
2007-06-10 18:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be bi before you tell you bf just make sure you know if your bi,lesbian,straight before you risk your relasonship because it could have just been a caught up in the moment thing that kinda thing happens ALOT when to people are drunk you just happened to be both girls you probly thought it was really interesting and different then kissing your bf...a guy... but have you ever thought about girls before or find them attractive? you could be bi or you could still be straight and just found what ya did really nice and fun
2007-06-10 18:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you like it enough to be with a female always? Or did you like it b/c it was something new? The only thing that should matter is that you are with someone that makes you happy. Man or woman.
2007-06-10 18:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay,heres the deal..if you tell your boyfriend theres a 49% chance hell dump u..but you were drunk! so its reasonable..but if you dont then he might just never know,and youll be feeling guilty about it..and soon your conscience will get to you then youll act all wierd and he might dump you,for acting soooo wierd on him...its your choice..and dnt waste your time.if he dumps you..then at least you wont live with the guilt,and soon youll find someone better who'll understand you more
2007-06-10 18:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont kiss and tell e will brake up wiht you you turn into a pervert and want to join. Tell him that things are movine fast and slow down find out you true fellings and then pick the person that you want to be with
2007-06-10 18:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋