when that person responded, smiled back and started moving towards me.. then i will freakout ," oh ****!! hes coming over" and u will just "hide" or disappear.. is there something wrong with me ... anyone with the same problem
2007-06-10 15:55:16 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, I go to talk to them
Morg
2007-06-19 05:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with the fact that you are flirting but the way you are doing it. Some people would call it "teasing"... I do not know your purpose for it; perhaps shyness, but why would you want to hyde and dissappear when you went fishing and caught a specimen you were interested in to begin with? You are playing games dear heart !... And it may be fun for now, but you may very well acquire a reputation this way... The word goes around with men as much as women you know?... You don't have to freak-out because the man is coming over to talk to you. Just be honest and charming. Perhaps you may discover the person has great qualities in addition of his physical appearance which caught your attention in the first place... Or are you playing " hard to get ?"
Good luck
2007-06-19 07:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, that happened to me on my birthday a couple of years ago. The guy was sitting on the bus towrads the back,; I was at the front. He kept giving me googly eyes and he was sooo cute. But he was with a girl and so I was thinking, "what a pig!" A cute pig -but still a pig. But then I realized that they weren't "together", they were just friends. I got nervous and just when I was summoning the courage to maybe go back and say hello; it was my stop! I felt like such a loser scaredy cat! So don't worry it happens to us al. Guys too. Guys have much more fragile egos than girls, so just imagine how many times they spaz out about a girl.
2007-06-19 07:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by ameerah m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just overly shy, relax, and just say hi let him get the conversation started. He obviously thinks your pretty to want to approach you, so you don't have to worry about that. The only reason you should run and hide if your eye sight is bad and you realize the guy has really bad teeth or something, or the wrong guy thinks your flirting eyes are for him.
2007-06-19 04:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing. I think that if the person you're flirting with isn't having direct communication with you, it's fun! But, once they've come over and want to talk, I always jet. I guess my confidence hasn't reached the level of flirtiness. Join the club!
2007-06-19 10:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by I really hate my job... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u but u do have to get it in your mind if ur going 2 flirt with some 1 u have to stay there and not run away u are just worried that if he find out that u like him and he don't like u back u would end up heart broken but have confidants because i believe u can do it
2014-10-13 09:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with u but u do have to get it in your mind if ur going 2 flirt with some 1 u have to stay there and not run away u are just worried that if he find out that u like him and he don't like u back u would end up heart broken but have confidants because i believe u can do it
2007-06-18 23:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a syndrome known as "tease-itis". You only want something you can't have. If some guy treats you like absolute dirt you will come begging for more, but when a guy really is genuinely nice to you, you turn and run because this turns you off.
2007-06-18 22:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that more times than I'd like to remember. I have a bad habit of not wearing my glasses and people sure do look different close up! I usually make small talk with them and then excuse myself to the restroom. I end up going to the restroom a lot.
2007-06-18 14:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by techtwosue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong with you? No. Human condition called shyness, yes.
Unless you have an "I'm not worthy" attitude, then you need to read up on confidence building.
Otherwise it's normal. You get better at this as time goes on.
Then, turn away? Who would do that? You? No, not anymore.
2007-06-19 06:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Up & At 'em 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its normal to think that way, I think that you might see that fantasy of talking to that certain someone but when it actually occurs, I think that might scare you.. like maybe your surprised someone smiled back... but for you to run away or stuff like that just makes the person who smiled back feel bad, like maybe you think that person is a freak.. maybe thats what they are thinking...? if that makes sense... I smiled back and forth at a girl once, but I got scared and left... oh well... there are lots more!
2007-06-18 13:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by iokua_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋