2007-06-10 14:38:50 · 37 answers · asked by tess 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Generally the people that get married don't take it seriously. Many people that get married, shouldn't have . . .
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2007-06-10 14:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ justbnme ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because 1: couples jump into marriages more flippantly than they used to because they figure, "well if things don't work out there is always divorce as an option" and in following to that 2:Because couples are giving up much easier than they used to.
In an age of so many technical and modern advances and luxuries, people are used to things immediately being exactly how they want them to be. We've all become extremely demanding and fast paced. And some people have that "my way right now" attitude so engrained in their minds that they don't have the energy or patience to really try hard to work and making something last and go right. Even if it's something as important as a marriage.
2007-06-18 09:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Angela B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because human nature sucks. Most marriages do not succeed because a lot of couples get into a "Comfort Zone" and the emotions become second nature without the sincerity behind the words spoken. The lack of communicating effectively becomes overwhelming and temptation then takes over and roots its evils. Couples lost the true meaning of a relationship being 50:50. If the two involved only gave 50% into the relationship, where does the other 50% go. The art of compromise has seemed to have gotten ignored and needs to be placed at the front again to eliminate the divorce rate.
2016-05-17 05:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because marriage is hard work. We're lead to believe that we meet our one true love, get married and everything will be rosey etc. Marriage takes respect for each other and hopefully love. A lot of people are fed the idea that it's the only thing to do and then they're disappointed when reality hits. I think people should need to take out a license and go to classes to make sure they know all that's intailed. If they're too immature-they wouldnt get the license to begin with. Gee-you would think I'd thought about this before that question.
2007-06-18 14:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by techtwosue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morals are not being taught to our young people like they used to be. So on So on and so on. The woman was supposed to be the heart of the house and the man the provider and somewhere along the line it got overlooked. The woman was supposed to be the teacher and pass on her knowledge to her young. Now all they worry about is how much they will get for child support when they are divorced. It is really sad isn't it. To see what has become of our young. The divorce rate is sad to. But it is what is being taught to our youth.
2007-06-18 13:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that marriage requires work. Lots of it, like having an entire other job. I think that divorce is easier than working at the relationship.
2007-06-17 02:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by lynnrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because after the marriage we stay with our partner because we have to, not because we want to. and sometimes we just think that marriage will magically change everything, and all or problems will be solved. we don't marry the man/woman we are with, we actually marry the idea of them. and when we finally discover the truth, it is so disappointing that we cannot love with it anymore. that's a divorce.
2007-06-18 10:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by joanna441989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many people are too young and naive to realize that they're not with the right person. There are a lot of people nowadays who don't wait long enough to figure out if this is really the right person for them before getting married.
Or, the couple really is meant to be with oneanother, but they don't work hard enough to make the marraige last. Very sad.
2007-06-10 14:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jenni 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody makes me happy. That is MY responsibility. We are a happy couple, but we were happy before we met. Divorce rates are high because people have unrealistic expectations about relationships, lack ethics, and are mostly immature/selfish.
2007-06-10 14:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because besides being wonderful it is hard work to keep
alive along with keeping every thing else in life going, some
times people grow apart , loose intrest in each outher
so they take the easer way out by starting over, but it is
much more satisfing if you can work it out.
2007-06-18 07:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends.
A lot of the marriages I know of ended in divorce because of infedelity.
And the others failed because they just gave up too easily.
Marriage isn't all rainbows and butterflies.
2007-06-18 11:01:46 · answer #11 · answered by xgirlanachronism245x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋