I have fallen in love with a co-worker. I think he is just the cutest guy; his laugh, his jokes, his walk, his talk, mannerisms, just everything about him. At times he waves at me with his fingers fluttering in the air, or says hello to me in a little bit of a higher voice and grins at me. Are these signs that he'll want me too? Are there any other signs that he could display or things that he could say to me to signal that he is bisexual like me and would want to get together with me? Or is he just being overly nice? He is married and has children.
2007-06-10 14:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by river85715 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well that is knid of a hard question but what I would do is ask him would he support gay pride or does him you know someting like that because it no a question that is directed to you.
2007-06-10 19:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think these nec. signs...but he does sound a little gay. married.... means nothing...I've slept with many married men. i think you should just maybe flirt back( a little eye contact is usually good..hold it a few seconds and look away). take it slow.....maybe say jokingly you think hes attractive or something....um just be nice. ask him to go do something outside of work...if he accepts then its possible.. well, if he knows your into guys.
2007-06-10 14:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is married and has children then just back off. Don't let your heart get exposed and find someone else if you want to be loved. Unless if you are gay.
2007-06-10 14:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he hasn't even tried to get to know you beyond the waves and such. Besides all that he has a wife and children.
Diane
2007-06-10 14:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Diane L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know your Bi and leave the ball in his court,
Also when you leave each day you could make a habit of saying Bi Bi.
2007-06-10 14:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never get involved with a co-worker.
2007-06-10 14:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could always jump his bones and if he's bisexual you'll do great and if not...get another job after coming out of the hospital.
2007-06-10 14:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by AliBaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a pass at him....see what he will do....
Be prepared to go to hospital are
get your wish.
2007-06-10 14:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mustbe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is just being nice, and not inviting any overtures from you.
2007-06-10 14:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he knows your gay and is being an a$$hole to you by mocking you
2007-06-10 14:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋