I usually wear my hair in pigtails.A couple days ago i took them out just to see my boyfriends reaction. He said i looked stupid w/o them. Why?
2007-06-10 11:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I actually read an interesting article on humans and our association between familiarity and beauty. We are attracted to what we are comfortable with. So I think its less that you are unattractive w/o them or that he has a pigtail fetish and more that he is so accustomed to seeing you this way it was unusual any other way. My advice is to see a stylist or savvy friend and have him or her help you with styles that work with your hair texture, hair length and face shape. Then, slowly work these new styles into your repertoire. If he doesn't dig the gorgeous you in a variety or styles, its him not you, honey.
Just a side note... honesty is one thing, but as long as he doesn't constantly degreed you. Him saying you look stupid may be a red flag? Like I said, its just a possibility of something deeper... but most likely he is just used to your pigtails!
2007-06-10 11:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by dmarie1314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just used o seeing you with pigtails. i wouldn't take his comment to heart, wear your hair in the manner that makes you feel comfortable.
2007-06-10 11:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked the same question except it had nothing to do with my bf ( i'm a dude i dont hav a bf WTF)
but anyways i asked why r pigtais considered sexy and they said it was cus it represented youth/ virginity to idk
i suggest u dump him he seems shallow but u been with him longer than i have XD
2007-06-10 11:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by blck gy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's used to them.
He also probably likes them alot.
A gf I had when I was 17 used to wear them occasionally. It always turned me on.
2007-06-11 05:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he meant "stupid" like..he didnt like it....i mean, maybe he didn't know how to say "i like you better with pigtails" in a nicer way....
talk to him about it
2007-06-10 13:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BJ handles
2007-06-10 13:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's both shallow and cruel. You can do better. Dump him ASAP.
2007-06-10 11:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he enjoys a blo-job with handle bars? no clue I love my fiance's long thick hair, tell him to blow himself you'll wear your hair how you want
2007-06-10 11:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, maybe he's just kidding with you.
2007-06-10 20:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's stupid
2007-06-10 11:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋