I was leagally adopted by my stepfather when I was 3 and I have no memories of my biological father. I have always wanted to make contact but been too scared. I am so glad I have done it and so is he. I don't know what to expect now, any one any similar experience?
2007-06-10 10:24:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Similar in that I am 33 at the moment and I found out when I was 19 that my 'father' was not my real or biological father. I have been thinking for some time about contacting him and I think I should but had never made that step. I am glad that you are happy you have done so and I think I will. I just need to pick up that phone.
Well done though.
2007-06-10 10:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Hobsch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday.
2007-06-10 10:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Poise ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter made contact with her father who had ignored her for years and years and she found that she had nothing in common with him and didn't even like him! She's still in touch with him but only to keep the peace with her grandparents(his mum and dad), but is glad that she met him again and "got it out of her system" so to speak.If i had the choice they would never have lost contact(by the way) that was his decision.
2007-06-10 10:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by bevalou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then you should get to know your real father and ask him questions so that it won't bother you inside but just don't forget about your stepfather because he did take care of you and he took you in as his daughter so you should make it work with both because it might not have been his fault that you got adopted
2007-06-10 10:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teresa K, I"m sorry hon but no experience just wanted to wish you a very happy birthday !
2007-06-10 10:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great news, Teresa - I'm a big softie for happy endings.
Seems silly to wish you happy birthday, after that.
2007-06-10 10:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica Alicia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. happy birthday. I haven't had a similar experience i just hope it all went well for you. Good luck for the future. xx
2007-06-10 10:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations
What a nice story to end my Sunday evening.
2007-06-10 10:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no experience of this at all Teresa...I just want to say bless you for your courage and bless your Dad....because i am a dad...and it makes me cry for him and you and I don't know why.
Love is everything isn't it??
2007-06-10 10:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday to you!!
2007-06-10 10:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋