Do men like wearing a shirt and necktie, but not like to admit it?

Question

I ask this question because I have always enjoyed the feeling and sensation of wearing a smart formal shirt and necktie. It gives me confidence, I feel smart and sexy, and I am comfortable wearing it. Yet this wasn't always the case as I used to feel embarrased about wearing the look because it was not the norm. I often would loosen my tie and move into the common adopted scruffy shirt and tie look at the end of funerals and weddings as it would be expected. I wondered if there is other guys like me who have experienced the same thing? Even now I wear a shirt and tie to work and will often keep it on in the evening after work as I don't feel uncomfortable and have no desire to remove it, yet other people have said to me "why don't you take your tie of". I think the embarrasment factor of wearing this look from when I was younger has now changed into a confidence factor, but it has taken years. I feel better for just being myself and expressing my own fashion choices in my life.

Answer 1

continue to be yourself....you are unique and special :). ties look sexy on young men. i wish i had a man like you.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong to be you yourself!!!! why care common comments?
There are too many people with different look and styles in this small little world.... it is just that u surrounded by people that are not the same as u, that's all.....only u find them out, u will know that u are not lonely and weird.... there do have many people same like u!!!!!

Answer 3

I am not a guy,but I will give you some advice.Most of us girls love a guy to dress that way,it's smart and sexy.so you just go ahead and dress the way you like,who cares what anyone else thinks.
Many blessings,
Margaret.

Answer 4

Dude, dressing up is fine. That's completely normal. I'm the same way.

Answer 5

A well dressed man is how all fantasies begin.

Answer 6

I have to wear one to work and HATE it

Answer 7

yes i do.