I just want to do away with my habit of mastubation how can i do it??

Question

I really dont want to mastubate but wht can i do m addicted to it.....I do mastubatiuon using my hand only.............Everyday i promise myself not to do it but the moment i m alone i stsrt doing that silly thing again how can i stop myself from doing it?????????

Answer 1

As long as you are doing it in private, it isn't a really bad habit, so don't let it make you start disliking yourself... that would be way worse than the habit itself.

Answer 2

I never have masturbated and that a true fact cause I was told when I was a very little girl that the heavens can see everything and that I wouldn't want my family to watch so that has kept me to never knowing what it's like cause that goes Thur my head. I do know I have read where it is perfectly natural to do so. I wouldn't be to concerned about it unless you think it's really a problem. Then just think of something unpleasant or gross to get the idea out of your mind if you need to, but again I think there is probably nothing wrong with you or it...... Take Care

Answer 3

Quiting Masturbation Habit
The habit of masturbation is like an addiction. Once you you have started masturbation, it is difficult to quit. It might seem even impossible. However if you have strong will you can quit this habbit. Again if you are doing masturbation once in a while [like once in two days] you should not be worried about it. But stopping it or minizing the frequencing will be a good thing if you can.
To stop the habit of masturbation you must first bear in mind what damages it can bring into your life. It will reduce your genital power. You will feel pain in the back and legs. You would not feel at you 100% all the time. You will keep forgetting things. These effects are more salient at a later age. It will effect your self confidence a lot and you might not be able to talk to girls whome you want to talk. All this is because of masturbation.

To quit masturbating lets see where most people would masturbate (or thos people who do it so often that they fall in the problem of premature ejaculation which litteraly destroys their whole life).

When you are taking bath
When you attend bathroom.
Before going to sleep at night (every night)
When are feeling board and are alone. You do it to kill boardem.
When you have a strong fantasy about sex/someone
When you see an attractive girl and are alone in home
You see beautiful actress on the TV
You see a **** movie and unable to control yourself.

continue.... http://www.geocities.com/sacseducation/quiting.htm

Answer 4

depends on how old you are and just how often you do it. from what Ive heard from past boyfriends etc its normal to do it quite often in the early teenage years, then as you get older, the need decreases. Especially once you meet a girl and start having sex or are in a long term relationship

thats usually though... so if youre doing it excessively I would probably ask someone a bit more qualafied like a doctor etc.

Answer 5

Why do you want to stop? Women need to masturbate MORE, if anything. It's the best way you can learn what you like, and how to get the most satisfaction. And since you're alone, it's also easier to figure all of this information out than it would be if you were with a partner. Be positive! This isn't anything to be ashamed of.

Answer 6

It is amusing that some people advised you thinkinh you are a boy! Find a girlfriend like I have done and do things together, promising yourself not to enjoy alone at all. Automatically you will reduce or stop masturbating alone.

Answer 7

If you really want to stop 100% you would, so a part of you is not ready to let go of the feeling you get from masturbating. You can try exercise everytime you feel the urge to do it. Keep busy so that you will not think about it.

Answer 8

Hi Friend,
There is nothing wrong in mastubation.It is a healthy thing telling that your sex drive is fine.dont worry about this.It is a better thing than having an affair to satisfy yourself.Dont feel about this ,once you get married this will stop automatically and you enjoy the real pleasure.

Answer 9

Only way to stop yourself from doing it is to have really good sex, or to get rid of your nervous energy some other way like by exercising. I think it's normal to masturbate, I'd only stop it if you really think it's a serious problem, then maybe you need sex therapy.

Answer 10

It is natural and hea;thy, why stop? The only alternative is to get a mate and have sex with them. Your body is calling for the sex. You have to release one way or another. In time, your cravings will lessen.