We had a great relationship . We were close friends ... I think about him all the time and since I moved never hear from him ..Why did he leave me for another woman who makes him miserable?
2007-06-10 00:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by remi m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tough question, simple answer! Men want more than just sex from a relationship-BUT-
if sex is all the woman has to offer, then that is all he can expect to get!
2007-06-10 00:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age. You may disagree but I think adolescence is 13 to 34 yrs,generally speaking;especially where men are concerned.I'm a guy, I'm older and I do social work.
With men,or boys,which they usually are in this age group,it's bam,bam, thank you ma'am;.women on the other hand connect feelings,emotion with the sex act.
Now,The question, why did he leave you for another woman who makes him miserable. You don't really know she makes him miserable. He is telling you that;but it could be true.He's trying to keep open the possibility that you and he will some day get back together. Ya see he, the male,is leaving it up to you. Ah, men; they hate decisions.
You don't need this.Do a little growing and go on to another relationship.
My girlfriend is bi and it's no wonder.
2007-06-10 11:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that he do love this woman that is why no matter how miserable he is, he wants it to work out. Most men will just prepare sex instead of feelings, but there's a lot out there that love is stronger than sex.............all you need to do is try to forget it and move on with your own life. Who knows one day you might that person that will have everything that can be worthy of your love..
2007-06-10 11:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women care more about connection than sex, but a certain number will think of the sex before connection, especially if their man arent satisfying them.
But, if you take a good time to get a deep man who has a slight of conection, help him grow with you in connecting. A man will be much closeer if you took a long journey with him teaching him how to connect, it is to his good.
Sweet girl sorry for what happened, just take your best of time and get a deep man. You are brilliant to ask such a question.
2007-06-10 07:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by enc e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately... many males only seek relationships to have sex... i'm not one of those people (fortunately).... but it's probably because he feels scared that you would possibly leave him and find someone new that is closer to you... and he's just making the decision before he gets hurt (that's probably y i would do that)... and he wants to have someone there that would be there for him whenever he wants to see her....
talk to him on this matter.... and u will soon see the truth...
U SHOULD NEVER ASSUME!!!!! NEEEEVVEEERRRRR!!!!!
get the facts straight from him k?
Good luck! i hope everything turns out the way you want it!
2007-06-10 20:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, men are absolutely idiots when it comes to relationships and women. sex makes us stupid. i will also share a man secret that you can never tell. men are scared of being completely alone. i don't mean alone like living alone. i mean alone as in totally empty and emotionally alone. as someone in that [position right now i am telling this from the heart. even if he is miserable he at least doesn't feel alone. dustiis
2007-06-10 07:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by dustiis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you made him miserable, too...apparently...the reason why he left you. Perhaps that's all women do, make men miserable. Like the 1st answer, men and women have different ways of dealing with each other. That's just the way life is.
2007-06-10 07:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys use sex to connect with women. We women express everything with words but men express all their feelings through sex and if you moved away he can't connect with you any longer.
2007-06-10 08:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men concentrate in guys but i blive mostly they concentrate in connection but the guy u are talking about is more to sex than connection.Better look for a connection guy than a sex fanatic guy
2007-06-10 07:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard question to answer, because alot of guys come across as though they want mostly sex and pretty much nothing else but some of those guys you meet can be the sweetest guys ever. maybe he just finds it difficult to tlk to you since you arent right there. i hope u find the answer your looking for! best of luck!!
2007-06-10 07:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋