As a 16 year old girl with a.. rather small chest.. I've been tormented a lot, but lately I've come to realize that all the "popular" girls at school are that well endowed either. So I ask you guys? How much does it matter?
2007-06-10 00:18:00 · 24 answers · asked by dark_lullaby01 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
lol and I'd really like to know what is the fascination with big breasts?
2007-06-10 00:25:06 · update #1
no, boob size does not matter. Any guy who's worth his salt will love you for who your are, not your breasts.
What's really important is if your body is proportionate. If you have a smaller, petite frame then you would look better with a smaller chest. Bigger frames look better with bigger chests.
As for BEING "well endowed", I promise you it's no walk in the park. First, you have all of this extra weight on your chest (which puts pressure on your lungs and makes it harder to do endurance activities sometimes, depending on the size), but like someone said they get saggy earlier than small breasts AND oftentimes you have to deal with stretch marks. On top of that if you get attention from guys because of your chest it's most likely from people who only want you as a prize girlfriend so he can say "my girlfriend has a huge rack."
As for these people tormenting you, are they guys? If so, you could simply say that they MUST be saying that just because they're insecure about the fact that they have a tiny package. If they object and ask how you would know, just explain with a little smile that if they WEREN'T insecure they would know that size isn't that important then walk away.
If you want inspiration, look at most of Hollywood's a-list celbs. Most of them have very tiny (and sometimes almost no) chests at all.
2007-06-10 02:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Speaking as an older guy - really, no it doesn't. They're interesting to look at, but as the old joke goes "anything over mouthful is wasted anyway". (But,as one crude friend said - how come girls never say that about guys?)
About the jokes - either people say things to be mean - they feel better about themselves if they can put you down - or they say things to get a rise out you because they want your attention, and they don't understand how hurtful they are being.
Seriously - after the first few moments of staring, it really doesn't matter. More important is how you get along with a guy over the long term - do you have fun, talk, laugh, enjoy doing things together? Even for sex, chest size is relatively unimportant.
2007-06-10 04:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKay, I'm not a guy...but I've had a lot of male friends over the years and I've kind of picked up that it really depends on the guy. Just like some people preffer blondes and some brunettes. Some guys like big, some guys like small.
Now let me get all preachy. ;) The important thing is the whole package...not the least of which is your inner self. Any guy who wants nothing to do with a girl because of her bust size is not worth your time or concern.
Oh, and I've always been a large-chested girl. It's not that much fun. I got a lot of teasing about it in high school. High school is rough, but it gets better. Especially if you learn to be more comfortable with who you are. Good luck. :)
2007-06-10 00:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by rp_player_girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't work that way.
Eventually, 95% of all people dig personality, not boobs.
The problem is: if you think popularity is directly related to breastsize, you end up thinking about yourself as unpopular, unliked, etcetera.
This is the image you broadcast to others as well; they'll pick up how you feel about yourself, and they will treat you accordingly.
So yes, being not the most popular girl in school may have to do with your breastsize, but only indirectly, through your own perception of yourself.
If you want to snap out of it, find yourself some examples of girls that contradict your theory: popular ungifted girls, and unpopular gifted girls.
Forget the fascination with boobs; if you manage to enjoy yourself free of what others think of you, you will attract lots of attention, boys, positive people, and so on.
It does not happen overnight. But do remember that you make your own reality come true here. Whether that's in a positive or in a negative way is up to you.
2007-06-10 01:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by mgerben 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyones different and what you have is what you have. Guys are weird and some guys like big breasts whereas some like small breasts. Don't go by what others think because you are who you are and that's all that matters!
2007-06-10 04:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mind a small or non existant chest. I like it just as much as a big pair of breasts. It really makes no difference you can do all the same things with them.............i dont understand people. Im adding this to your additional post......im nopt sure with the fascination with big ones.....some people just thing bigger is better i suppose. maybe fuller is more pleasing? i dont really see it. they all look nice lol
2007-06-10 00:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just to make you feel better I personally don't like big boobs
2015-06-21 18:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by cyral 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need to like you for who you are. Being small chested is better anyway...sports especially along with other things
2007-06-10 02:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man. Some like big boobs, some like a big butt. My boyfriend is fascinated with my butt. Others like big hips. Others just focus on the face.
2007-06-10 03:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I'm not a guy, but if you think that the only reason a guy might like you is because you are pretty you are wrong. Most guys look more at personsonality than physical looks
2007-06-10 03:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Just someone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋