Hey everyone. I feel like I am in a bit of trouble. I have been with my boyfriend with a very long time... almost 5 years, and I really love him dearly. Well, he watches a lot of porn (and I realize porn is normal, so I am cool with that), but now he keeps asking me for things sexually I don't want to do... MANY MANY things. Well, lately he has been into cross dressing a lot... and to be honest I am a little freaked out by it. I don't know how to deal with it because to him, it is very important, but I don't want to see it. I buy some clothing items for him to make him happy, but I tell him not to do it around me.... but then he does it around me anyways. Am I being a ***** for not understanding? How should I deal with this?? Help!
2007-06-09 21:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love cross-dressing and my wife is supportive, but if she wasn't, I would not dress-up in front of her if she asked me not to do it around her. So, you husband should respect your choice and he needs to be understanding.
2007-06-10 18:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a taker not a giver. Every relationship is about compromise. If he isn't willing to compromise then your relationship will only continue to frustrate you. I would suggest sitting down with him and explaining that you need him to compromise too. If he doesn't I would leave him. I think you are very understanding person to handle someone who cross dresses, because in no way could I ever tolerate that.
2007-06-10 04:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him then help him
2007-06-10 09:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋