What should i do? She said that her father beat her while she was in the shower and bruised her thigh. Because she slammed the door and broke it.
A few instances like this have happened before. She is 13. if child services is brought in she will be removed from her home and all her friends. What do i do?
2007-06-09 19:55:17 · 13 answers · asked by hell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is 13 he struck her while she was undressed in the shower something has to be done about her father go to the council ling teacher and ask for help ~~
2007-06-09 20:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will most likely be removed from her home, But not tomorrow. It takes time. Maybe her dad just needs help. And child services can do that for them. The point is not to break up a family. The point is to make it better. And sometimes separation can be the best answer. If you really love and care for her, report it. You don't have to give your name. Maybe you can do it through your school counselor at first. But do it soon. Don't let it become too late. Good Luck.
to the answer below me.......
did your dad go into the shower while you were naked and beat the crap out of you? That is abuse!!
2007-06-09 20:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If child services is brought in she may not have to leave the home, depending on the issues. He may need to leave the home. If there are other children present they are at risk also. Her father may need anger management or parental training. If she is taken from the home it is much better than being beaten. Talk to the school counselor or some other trusted adult. Be a good friend and listen and be there for her, but get her some help. No one deserves to be beaten by someone who is supposed to love them.
2007-06-09 20:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to report it.
Would you rather her be around you while you know she is in Hell or do you want your friend to get better?
You guys can still keep in touch and maybe she won't be taken away that far.
If her father hits her too hard one day she may have to pay for it with her life.
God only knows what emotional trauma she has already gone through.
But I really do hope you make the right decision. Good luck.
2007-06-09 20:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by j-e-l-l-o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a protracted time to hold something in. you somewhat need to get her help. you ought to probable pass together with her to tell somebody. make beneficial that's somebody you the two can believe. Does her mom understand. because of the fact if she does than she is merely as responsible as her father. She ought to are starting to be help a protracted time in the past. That merely isn't authentic. A be sure is somebody you need to be able to look as much as. Get her help. police officers, useful, instructor, baby shielding centers, or possibly a kin member that she would be able to believe.
2016-11-27 22:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she slammed the door and broke it then she doesn't sound abused. Abused kids are usually scared to do things like that. She probably needed to get beat for a stunt like that. My parents would of beat my butt if I did that but they didn't abuse me.
2007-06-09 21:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by thinkinkat1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact child services she may not want to lose her friends but the situation is more serious and if that cannot be done then try to keep her away from him as much as possible
2007-06-09 19:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you do if you did nothing and he ended up doing something really bad to her? talk to her and tell her to talk to someone... she might be able to stay with other relatives,
she might lose a few friends, but they do have phones and internet at least she will be safe and know that someone loved her enough to care about her
2007-06-09 20:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by crazeebitch2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call the police and report the abuser. They will investigate and determine the truth. Why even waste time asking?
2007-06-09 19:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Displacement from the home and friends would be tough, but at least she wouldn't be living in fear.
2007-06-09 19:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by mwrc09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋