so i really like this one guy that i have been hangging out with for a couple of months now and i finaly confronted him about what we were and if he cared about me or just wanted to fool around. he said he cares and i belive him ( but i think its because i want to)so i asked him what we were and if he wanted to be more, well he never got back to me so i let it go till today were i asked agien and he said that this is something he wanted to talk about face to face and never called me back. so my question is do you think he wanted something more or just a peice of ***?
2007-06-09 19:09:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
ok im not a kid im 20 years old so please no you shouldnt be doing this stuff anyway, i need a true answer.
2007-06-09 19:10:38 · update #1
wow ok first off i know alot about him and we spend so much time together when were not making out. i do know alot about him and want to know more thays why i want a relationship. pluse we did not have sex.... so thats not my problem here.
2007-06-09 19:27:00 · update #2
By not answering, he is telling you that he really doesn't want anything more than you already have and is uncomfortable being asked about it. Be very glad that you didn't have sex -- that ruins a friendship in 99% of cases.
Don't call him again until he calls you. Backing off will give him time to think, and he might find he misses you. But pressing him will not change the fact that he's probably not interested in anything long term.
2007-06-10 04:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that he likes you and also wants a peice at the same time. If you give in to soon, you may regret it. Give it time and don't rush into anything or try to make more out of this than it really is.
2007-06-10 09:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kind of think that he is not into you...well actually I think he's. From what you said he does care about you...so maybe he didn't want to hurt your feelings. If it was just that though I don't know why he just did not tell you on the phone. If he needs to see you face to face for something I think he;s gonna tell you he's gay
my theory is a stretch tho...Maybe he just thinks of you as a friend.
2007-06-10 02:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by darkurax 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know, Kate. People handle things differently, so I cannot know what is going on inside his head. If he's a very busy person, then maybe he just puts things off. Or maybe he is giving you a hint by not responding. I don't know which it is.
2007-06-10 03:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having moved with him for 2 months you should be knowing him better than our guess works about his stance. May be he has something that he needs to discuss in person only. You can reduce your period of suspense by meeting him at the soonest
2007-06-10 02:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by venkashok 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop pestering him and face the fact that you just wanted to have sex. If you were really interested in him you would have shown interest in him, but you were interested in sex, so that is what you pursued. Stop beating yourself up and feeling guilty, your don't have to have a long term relationship with every guy to whom you are sexually attracted or with whom you have sex. Let go of your ideas about relationships, look at what you want from your relationships, and pursue that. Just to help clear things up a bit, Sex is a relationship. Relationships are just ways that people relate.
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You said it in your rebuttal, you are after sex. You guys spend all this time together when you are not making out. If you aren't after sex, then why make out? Making out is foreplay, it is what people do to get ready for sex. If you are making out and not having sex, then you are being dishonest with him and yourself.
2007-06-10 02:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by robertm_29402 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
maybe not just a peice but he probably doesn't want to commit so if you did it he did want to get into a relationship
2007-06-10 02:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by zabadass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋