my girlfriend is a one of a kind person for me and i always wanna look out for her. but she had so much stress with school and started getting headaches and neasea and increased appitite. to me im thinking that she is pregnant and the last 3 times i thought she was she did a pee test and it came out negative but now she is out of school and has neasea and tiredness and im more then ever convinced she is but doesnt wanna a pee test and thinks or she knows shes not pregnant. we had sex a couple times. twice before a few days before her period and one after. im afraid she wont get it this time. is it me being paranoid and how can i control it?
i wanna trust that she isnt but myself i cant cope with it because i want a good future for the both of us
2007-06-09 16:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jonathan R 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i was using a condom the entire time. one time there was a tear on the side but we got that checked
2007-06-09 17:04:35 · update #1
Depression can make you do all of those things. If she missed a period then you should be worried. If that's the case then she needs to go to the doctors for a blood test. But otherwise, try to comfort her threw these hard times. =)
2007-06-09 16:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Miss independent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be having migranes. These are severe headaches that can be accompanied by nausea and fatigue (tiredness). One of the major triggers is stress. Also, stress tends to bring on stress eating in some people.
The second underlying concern of yours, pregnancy, can be easily avoided by using protection. For Pete's sake, don't have sex without using protection and you won't have to do pregnancy tests every month. It sounds like you're driving her crazy hounding her for a pregnancy test every time she has a headache. Be responsible and you could stop stressing her out over this.
If you want to help your girlfriend, use protection and then leave her alone when she has a headache. Use that time to do something small for her that she would otherwise have to do, like laundry or grocery shopping. Taking away a few things from her "to do" list may be all it takes to keep her stress in check.
If she keeps having headaches, she needs to see a doctor.
2007-06-09 16:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you don't want to her to get pregnant then stop having sex w/ her when she misses enough periods then she'll get a test if she doesn't want to get a test it might mean that she has already had a period a just doesn't want to tell you, stop worrying about it a man worrying about a pregnancy test is like a women worrying about how to propose just let her find out if she is on her own w/o all your worrying and questioning (have you had your period this month?) and you worry about how your gonna afford a honeymoon
2007-06-09 16:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by in His image 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely want a good future... use condoms with sex... make sure you have the condom on right... and don't ever have unprotected sex. with three other "scares" maybe you should think about using protection... She could be pregnant... but if she's truely stressed with school... maybe that's what's making her feel this way. You can't make her do a test. Maybe she's already done one and knows she's pregnant???? Man... good luck
2007-06-09 16:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by SillyGirlRN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're stressing out. relax.she knows her body best. give it some more time. when she gets concerned,she'll take a test.
2007-06-09 16:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋