I have read several posts from people who say they feel lonely and I would like to help but I don't know how. I think it's sad that in a world full of people someone should have to feel that way. What do lonely people want, and what, if anything, can we all do to help?
2007-06-09 15:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by 000000 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The internet is a real tough place for that lonliness and cut-off feeling. It would be so cool if there could be chat rooms where the ugly people didn't come in a post mean things. You really have to get people to their own good ideas....find a hiking group, singles group, neighbor, etc to do stuff with.
2007-06-16 11:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a well rounded young lady, but just unhappy for some reason. Have you considered talking with your doctor? When I was 17 I had ovarian cysts, which will really mess up your hormones, and would cry if the family I was rooting for on Family Feud lost! LOL It seems funny now, but at the time I really thought I was losing it. My point is that there could be a medical reason for your feelings, so it might be a good idea to go get a thorough check up. Good luck and keep smiling!
2016-05-21 03:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard question to answer. Especially if you don't know the person you are trying to help.
I think the best thing to do is to just be a friend and let them know that you are there for them... Of course, you are only one person and can't help the entire world. But it would be nice if you could.
It seems that you have a big heart and It's nice that you care as much as you do. Maybe you should become a therapist.
All the lonely people. Where do they all come from? John Lennon
2007-06-09 16:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by mikeytrav 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Many lonely people are lonely because they choose to be. I know. I many times feel lonely. If I wanted to I can go out and meet people. But I don't. With it would come problems. In my case I'm married. If I go seeking company the kind I would like. I would end up divorced. Some of them know what to do. And how to go about doing what is needed to improve their lives. We must learn to be happy and content even when there is no one to comfort us. I tell you this because I know. Needy people are never satisfied they always want more and when more isn't enough it grows tiresome for the one trying to help. You can be a sort of pen pal. But then their problems end up being your problems. And you will feel frustrated at not being able to "fix" what ever it is that needs fixing. God bless you and watch over you. For caring, it shows you are a good person at heart. And may he also watch over me. Life has hardened me some what from the person I use to be.
2007-06-09 16:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sunset 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Ask them what were some of the most important events in their lives. What do they miss most.
If they could back and change one thing in their life, what would it be.
Who was their favorite teacher and what the reason the teacher was their favorite?
If you live near a beach, take the person to the ocean for a few hours.
2007-06-09 16:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just be a listening ear, a very comforting eye, a crying shoulder, a helping hand and a very passionate soul.
Listen to them, understand them and make them feel comfortable by your side. That's the best way we could do to help.
2007-06-10 01:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jaime 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be their buddy. Even if its something as small as chatting online. Let them know that somebody in this world cares about them and that they are not alone. Believe me, to someone that is lonely, thats the greatest gift in the world.
2007-06-09 15:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by aneps_grl 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I suggest getting them a puppy or a kitten. Animals are very affectionate and show unconditional love. If you think they would accept one as a gift, just show up at the persons door with one
2007-06-09 16:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by djice929 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if u no them try talking 2 them.try 2 encourage them 2 do more things.tell tham thats its ok.be there friend.hang around each other and talk.that should make them feel better.thats what i do
2007-06-09 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mya B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not an easy answer. They know they need to "get out" but have a fear or misunderstanding of the "outside world"
2007-06-09 16:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋